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Originally Posted by Hustler25
... every set I opened one of my mates who's a right chode would come in and blow the sets out by coming in and saying 'Is he trying to chat you up?'
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I hate reading shit like this. It pisses me off that you would let your 'friends' treat you like this.
You lot need boundaries for your friends. And, you should be the dominant members of your groups.
A friend of mine wouldn't get away with that kind of behaviour. Firstly, they'd be wary of doing that to begin with. Secondly, if they did behave that way, they'd be told in no uncertain terms that their behaviour was unacceptable and continuing to be a prick would result in the termination of our friendship and possibly a slap.
Take control. Change the hierarchy. If you hold strong, they'll bend to your reality. Especially as you will be the only one marking their position consciously. If you are walking down the street with your friends and only you know it is a race, you'll win.
Peace,
kowalski