Really SJ?
You think you should let your mates tool you?
That's fucking weak man. This isn't about game, forget game. This is about friends. As I understand it friends don't try and fuck each other over, whatever the situation.
My whole statement was ...
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Originally Posted by kowalski
they'd be told in no uncertain terms that their behaviour was unacceptable and continuing to be a prick would result in the termination of our friendship and possibly a slap.
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By disagreeing with this statement you are saying that your friends can be total pricks to you forever and you'll just take it. Eventually you have to say 'Dude, that shit is unacceptable. Never treat me like that again' and that's better said sooner rather than later.
Have some respect for yourself. If you wouldn't treat another person the way you are being treated by others, don't accept that behaviour.
I'm really not that aggressive, when you have genuine respect for yourself it emanates from you so you don't have to be aggressive (as long as it is inside you people won't test that). Do you know how many of my friends I've lost when I've told them their behaviour is not acceptable? None, not one. In fact in every case it has brought us closer.
Letting people treat you like shit and not saying anything is inauthentic.
Peace,
kowalski