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13-02-2010, 01:05 AM
Just got in from town. Was out with Hustler, plus two lads he'd met on another PUA forum.
Opened a couple of sets, but my head wasn't quite right tonight. I dunno, I just didn't bounce as well as I usually do. I guess that happens from time to time. One of the lads we were with has been doing this stuff for 5 years now, and was giving all sorts of advice which was very helpful.
Got one k and number close. A girl in a really cool bar called Chameleon. They were a seated 2 set, she an HB7. I opened - custard again - and got to talking. The conversation was really easy to run with, I'm pleased with how it went. As last week, once I began to pile on the kino, it was really easy and escalated very quickly. I can't stress this enough guys: kino kino kino kino KINO!
At one point this happened:
HB: I love that t-shirt, red looks good on you.
CO: This is orange.
HB: No way! That's a cool tshirt! Your girlfriend must have bought it for you.
CO: Yeah she did.
HB: Did your girlfriend dress you tonight?
CO: No I dressed myself.
HB: But did she choose your clothes?
CO: No I wouldn't let her.
Why was I telling her I had a girlfriend?? I have no explanation for this. When she asked the first question, I just spat it out as if I had a bird. Maybe this was subconscious push / pull. But I can think of no conscious reason that I told her I had a girlfriend.
After a minute, I said:
CO: Ok, so I've got a confession to make.
HB: Oh yeah?
CO: Yeah... I've been lying all along. I don't have a girlfriend.
Followed by a few minutes of playful banter about 'oh you're just saying that', and me then changing my mind saying 'Ok I do have one' and then 'Ok, fine, I don't' etc.
It didn't have any bearing on the outcome. I got her number and a kiss, and she has since voluntarily texted me and rang me trying to find out where I am. Cool. But I do wonder why I said what I did.
Anyway plenty of positives from tonight. One thing I do want to start doing is fucking approaching sets and targeting genuinely hot women. Too many times tonight, I opened sub-HB7s. Its great and stuff, but I am capable of attracting girls I am also attracted too. I'm out again tomorrow night - hopefully will be able to kick on and open a few more attractive girls.
But on the whole, progress is being made!
Just get on with it please
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