Warning this is pretty long.


I just moved to a new town, got a new job at a call center. The girl who trained our small induction group for a week (she's 20) and all we did for a week was sit for 8 hours and talk for the whole week. I'm 21 btw. So as we talked for 8 hours a day we basicly talked about everything from our relationships to sex (which she revealed some pretty crazy shit with her and her husband). She was married then and I was in a 4 year relationship.

1 week into it and I broke up with my girlfriend, as of 3 days ago she is getting a divorce.

It's hard to build sexual tension when we're in the same office for 8 hours a day and continually talking (and texting/facebook) when I get home. She's a HB 8.5, very high maintenence who depends on being wined and dined but at the same time she's very very promiscuous and a generally warm person.

She broke up with her husband on friday and ended up sleeping with two of her good guy friends, one on saturday and one on sunday. At work today she then proceeded to explain how they both thrashed her so bad she could hardly walk. After hearing that I made a couple of jokes about it but then told her I didn't want to hear that shit, my motivation for that is to try to not get caught too deep in the friend zone although i'm probably already stuck there.

This is a girl I want to sleep with once merely because I find this time talking has been a waste unless I sleep with her. She's now booking up with dates and i'm trying to subtley get something happening with her without risking an uncomfortable work enviroment if she doesn't respond well. I want to make it all happen in the one day as it's getting to me the longer I take to sleep with her and I don't want to waste several dates just to sleep with a girl I don't care about.

Her personality:

Money orientated when it comes to relationships
Not phased much by relationships
Very material
Loves a night out and getting smashed
Has a very club-slut mentality
Very open about her entire life, am I stuck in the friend zone or is it just because we have 8 hours a day stuck with nothing to say?

I'm not her type as she's into surfy guys, I'm a person who is very clean, stylish guy that dressed to work like i'm going out on the town.

Now to the part where I need help:

How can I turn this relationship into a sexual one, delicately without jepordising my working relationship? We spend alot of time at work together and I don't want anything more but a one night stand from her. She's the type of girl that would, but making the initial invitation to make it happen is delicate.

I had something planned tonight to have drinks with her and another colleague at their flat, but she cancelled for another date. How should I react to this? Should I punish her for cancelling it or what?

Very weird situation. With this oppurtunity I need to make all the right moves and fast.