Yeh that's what I'm going to be striving for. One shot to sleep with her. If it fails, if I get shot down I won't try again, because she just isn't worth chasing.

I guess it's about the perfect opportunity, but it has to happen soon or I will be risking not doing it at all. The longer i'm trapped in this friend-zone the harder it will be to get out.

Good idea about the work thing, definately something I will consider. I have the le-way to take her on a date by myself but I don't want it to work like that. She wants a guy to wine and dine her where-as I don't want to give her what she wants just so I can get sex from her. I'm looking for a way around that. I don't want to be the same as the other chumps who do everything she wants them too.