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Originally Posted by kowalski
Reading that made me feel a bit yuk. You should question yourself if you really think communion with a girl lacks value unless you tap it.
This is a little cold too. If your only interest with this girl is sex, behave like it. Don't have long sprawling conversations with her if you are only doing it to fuck her. That's not a good way to be. People should be treated as ends in themselves, not as a means to an end.
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I don't think communication with "all girls" lacks value, but with this girl it is a dead end for me. This is the goal i've set in my head but like I said, it's a delicate situation so "behaving like it" is a little harder.
@Hustler: The dick is doing all the thinking until I pop my first bullet since my breakup. I need to change my mindset around her though, I accomodate her conversation too much and need to find a way to make her work for it. Same goes with my date setting with her.
I'll post feedback on how today goes and see if things change at all.