I wrote "a girl" not "all girls".

Best way to get something is to behave like you want it. The situation is delicate because you make it delicate. You make a battle out of it. Opposing what she wants and what you want then trying to engineer a situation where you get yours without her getting hers. Your intention is to take value, this gives the situation its delicate balance. Like a confidence trick.

How about thinking of yourself, your sex, as a gift you can share? Think about what escalating to sex will be for her, you should see her, in this scenario, as a winner, not as someone you duped.

A person, someone just like you full up of fear and desire trying to understand the world enough to make good decisions and laughing and crying and worrying and hoping (and all-bran and rape. j/k), is not something to be toyed with, tricked and manipulated to achieve some outcome. Commune with your fellow man, you'll feel awesome and as a side effect of being a socially awesome person people (male and female) wont be able to get enough of you.


Peace,

kowalski