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Originally Posted by Summer Junky
I feel like I do have a valid argument for this, but don't feel confident enough to find the right words. Maybe I'll get back to you on this.
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I look forward to this.
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Originally Posted by Summer Junky
I think it's fair enough having a girlfriend without having any intention of staying with her by the way, and likewise, so long as you state this from an early point, but in my experience girls tend to be ok with this until your'e out shagging other women, and then it's not cool anymore.
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Not sure if you're just expressing something or are still unclear on my position, just in case it is the latter ...
I don't cheat on my girlfriends. My not buying into the paradox that is marriage has nothing to do with the issue of fidelity. When I'm 'in love' (whatever we all take that to mean) I want a monogomous relationship with the object of my love. And, I would have every intention of staying with her, just no intention of marrying her.
As for girls who I am seeing casually (and honestly I love those girls too, just in a different way. I've always thought that the word love has too broad a scope which causes much confusion): It is casual so there is no agreement of monogomy. Sure some girls can get upset when the possibility becomes a reality. That's cool if it's not good for them, I wouldn't want them to continue with the relationship if they're unhappy. However, I've found that once those girls have a little distance to get a better perspective on the situation, they come back.
Peace,
kowalski