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Default 07-03-2010, 05:27 AM

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Originally Posted by kowalski View Post
How about - in this community you hear a lot of things that if taken in isolation and as an absolute are total bullshit, like the principle in your quote.

You've probably got a nice PC Hustler. I think I want it. So I'll come round later and just take it and I guarantee your response won't be 'Good luck to you k'.

Let's remember to actually think about things rather than mindlessly trotting out the proverbial utterings of PUGs.
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Originally Posted by Hustler25 View Post
I mean in the context of pick-up specifically, if a guy see's a girl he likes/wants I say good luck to him if he's willing to take a chance on hooking up with her (through legal means). I for one cannot condone [sic] that, in his mind he is taking right action, that is good.

I feel of late that I am erring towards if a girl in a relationship is up for hooking up then it demonstrates to me that her relationship is not of such a great significance to her that she feels 100% commital towards it. Perhaps there are underlying issues within her relationship that don't make her feel fully satisfied. In that scenario I think its ok to proceed, but proceed with caution, don't go in like a bull in a china shop have consideration and compassion for peoples feelings where necessary.

One thing I do believe whole-heartedly is if you go around picking up girls in relationships 'just because you can', getting your fill and then discarding them, then you are a cunt I have no respect for that. However if you like a girl who is in a relationship she is not satisfied with and she likes you back (because she is attracted to the true expression of your authentic self, not because you are running game) and you end up hooking up, I don't see a problem with that.
For anyone who wants to read the full background to this thread; here are links to both of the threads referred to in the quotes above:
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