I have battled down the hatches dont worry. I will explain myself.......that characteristic is something I look for initially as I am walking down the street. Me and my mates go for very similar women. Now say for example, I met a girl and she wasnt someone I initially would introduce but over a period of time I started to like her, then what my mates thought would have less of an effect on me. However as student and a lad, we do want the hottest gf (surely thats only natural?). I think its more to do with pride than anything. But I know for sure the buzz I get from mates coming up to me and saying "Tom that girl you were talking to was sooo hot" is very satisfying. However dont take that comment the wrong way, I dont seek just external gratification its a split of 70% internal 30% external.


Quick Q of Kowlaski: From the rep and following that you have, you sound a very successful guy in the field. Also you sound like a guy that has dated alot of women, do you find that the more you date, the more picky u get? As you have some similarities with myself, do you find these women hard to find? As I have been looking and only found 3 over the last 3 years and they werent perfect but as you said had "changeables"?

Cheers

No.FX