Hi Troy,

Firstly, I was chatting to a guy i know about 12 months ago who is a marriage/relationship consultant and he was saying that he was amazed that he meets people who go into danger area's (iraq, Afgan) or who are in the forces, yet when it comes to relationships there confidence is almost none existent. So you are not alone!

Confidence actually doesn't exist, its just familiarity and your ego playing games with you. If you look at it logically what's the worst possible thing that could happen to you if you walk up to a girl... She tell's you to fuck off! compared to where you have been and what you have done this is the smallest insignificant thing ever. The worst for me was a guy ran over and head butted me and shouted that it was "his girl", but that hasn't put me off as the girl in question looked like she was having a shit night and all i'd done was say hi!.

So yeah, jump in, you'll be amazed what you can ACTUALLY say to a woman on a night out vs what you THINK you can say, and doing it regularly, brings familiarity, ergo people say you are confidant.

Enjoy

Retro