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25-03-2010, 10:14 AM
Roody!!! Roody!!! I want to be Symba and roam around the plains and water holes. x*
@ Retro, thanks for your reply buddy, but don’t be so hard on yourself, you know what you’re doing wrong, that’s half the battle won. And personally, I’ve got no inclination of becoming what people call an “alpha male”. I could discuss this more but essentially I want my masculinity to be centred around positive character traits and a general feel of comfort with myself and not centred around dominating people. Make of that what you will chaps.*
@ Tom, you are too kind sir. But I'd say she's just thick skinned. When I look at her I see a vulnerable 12yr, she's cute.
You’re right, a lot of us got into this to take right action, which is spot on.*After thinking a bit more, I think a lot people put their masculinity on the line with the pressure of gaming - I have to approach this girl and get an outcome or else I’m not an alpha male. Really, is that right? It’s like what Jaz was saying in his post about being indifferent, we’re all awesome so just be awesome.*
@ Kowalski, that’s great news!!! Good luck mate, I’m certain you’ll dazzle them.*
I read that post and it was interesting. I suppose I’m coming at it from a different angel, man the hunter vs man the social animal. The most successful business men I’ve ever met in my line of work (counting beans) aren’t necessarily the most dominant, but they’re were bang on the money with their social skills, being inspirers and uniters as well as leaders. The most dominant clients I’ve dealt with in fact tend to self destruct, alienating themselves from people, losing rapport and the emotional support we need. (Yes I am a big gay tree hugger.) x*
@ Skills, mate you did 30 wks training, you know you would have made it. x
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