Co!!
Was meaning to put a proper post on this but been busy with the packing!!
Was great to have you down again, sorry for shoting, but my girl, whos not my girl, showed up with her girls. (Im trying to train them as wings..)
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Originally Posted by CovertOperation
We headed onto Black Dog (I'm told thats what its called). We went straight for the dancefloor, and started to make shapes. As we did, and as Dave pointed out, a few sets seemed to gravitate towards us. I guess this was 'warm part of the pool' theory in action.
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We get this a lot actually..
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I still need to get used to dance floor approaches, and I'd appreciate any tips guys have on this. I was eyeing up a girl who was part of a 3 set for quite some time, but at no point did I go over. I'm not sure what to do on a dancefloor when it comes to picking up girls. You can't really talk to them without seriously bringing the energy down (its tremendously difficult to dance and talk), and its further difficult to engage the whole group. An obvious answer is to be direct: go in, directly for the one you want, grab her hand, and start dancing with her. This is something I need to learn to do, as it will be a hell of a useful tool to have in my tool box.
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The dance floor is not for conversations. When a girl joins you to dance (and how can she resist when you're clearly good at it and are enjoying yourself..) its not talk. You have to dance with her.
What has worked loads for me (and I've seen work for the guys) is taking her hand and spinning her, once this way then that, then bring her in close. If she reciprocates the interaction spin her again and bring her ass back in to you and grind some more... then more manoeuvring and go in close for the kiss... You can do this on the same dance floor many times a night with a few different girls.
Then its already sexual and no deep conversational skill are needed just the right level of pull and push to keep her hot for the rest of the night.
(P.s And if she didnt reciprocate, dont waste any more time on her!!)
These are just my thoughts, dont know what the other guys think or what works for them.
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Dave asked if I had closed. I said I hadn't, but honestly couldn't say why. He suggested going back in for a number close.
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Its always good to close if you like the girl, who knows what could come of it. But I gotta stop telling you what to do, its not being a very good host!!
Im off tomorrow, back in 4 weeks. I trust the guys will invite you back down while im away!!!
See you around fella.
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