The only way to make herself return to a state of relaxed, satisfied happiness is to do anything she can to get the person who is negatively affecting her emotional state to feel relaxed, satisfied and happy. For more on this read Brizendine's The Female Brain



Tying It All Together
This almost telepathic empathy females developed also helped them discern which potential mates are being honest. When you interact with a girl, she will unconsciously follow you into whatever emotional state you are in. She will also observe your conscious behaviours. She will then compare the two. If there is any disparity between the two (e.g. if you are consciously adopting the outward behaviours of a confident, worthy and sexy male, yet internally you feel nervous, unworthy and unattractive), this will make her feel strangely uncomfortable in your presence. She will feel weird and creeped out by you and will not want to mate with you, she will want to end the interaction as soon as possible to stop herself from feeling weird.

She will also test you to see if you have created a veil of self-deceit that enables you to feel that you are a confident, worthy and sexy male. This is the emotional content of acting. When acting a certain role, in order to make it more convincing, we draw upon our emotional history and use our imagination re-assimilate that emotional state (read Stanislavski's An Actor Prepares for more on this). She will actively attempt to knock your confidence, to make you feel unworthy and to make you feel un-sexy. In the community these tactics are known as shit tests, bitch sheilds etc. If she manages to affect your state it shows her that you are weak. At which point you will either walk away from the interaction, or plough on. If you are acting and you plough on, she will now feel a disparity between your emotional state and your conscious display. Which, as before, will make her feel weird and she will try to end the interaction as soon as possible to stop you making her feel uncomfortable.



Using This Knowledge To Our Advantage
When interacting with a girl you should always be thinking how much you want to fuck her and how horny she makes you feel. She will adopt this emotional state. She will start to think that she wants to fuck you and will feel horny too. She will wonder why this is and rationalise it 'This guy is talking to me and I'm starting to feel really horny, like I want to fuck. It must be because I fancy him. God he is so sexy'.
Of course, you can't fake this. She will undoubtedly throw a few tests your way, to try and knock your state, to see if it is real. To find out if you honestly believe you are worthy. If you are simply acting worthy, she will usually succeed in breaking your state. If you trully know that you are a confident, worthy and sexy male, you will pass all tests. She will then; first follow your emotional state into horniness, and then follow your dominant, physical leading (escalation, isolation, extraction) into your bed.

This is a large part of what it means to be a natural, and it demonstrates why a natural is not concerned with what they are going to say. Instead the focus is on having a confident, worthy and sexy manly core that the natural is fully in touch with and freely expresses.

All men have these qualities as the core of who they are. To become a natural is to destroy the ego and put aside the bullshit of your social conditioning. Once this is done you will feel confident, worthy and sexy. The natural does not use rehearsed lines as they will not necessarilly be in congruence with what he is as a man, rehearsed lines are only needed if you lack confidence in what you are about to say. The natural knows that the most congruent thing he can say, and therefore the most confident, worthy and sexiest thing he can say, is the next thing that pops out of his mouth.

Inner game is true game.


Peace