Hey guys - thanks for everyone that helped me out on Sat night - especially Cefai who kept pushing me and pushing me and pushing me until I approached. I'm glad he knew I really needed those pushes even when I said that I didn't. Chatted to a few girls and ended up talking to some girls on a hens night. Managed to isolate what I thought was a very cute girl (although on further inspection should could have stood to lose more than a few pounds) and was absolutely doing nothing until Cefai came past and gave me the classic gem "Ask her if she's a good kisser". That worked like a treat and it was clean sailing after that. I had a great time we'll have to do it again.