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Originally Posted by whacksmith
I figured this would essentially be our comfort stage. It would have been C2 and C3, in Mystery's model.
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There are no stages to this shit. They don't exist.
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Originally Posted by whacksmith
I am pretty sure the attraction I created when I met her has completely gone now. I'm pretty sure if I tried to rekindle things I would get LJBFd straightaway.
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Stop making negative assumptions. Unless she explicitly states something negative you should believe all is well. Otherwise you will make it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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Originally Posted by whacksmith
I think the reason why she was attracted to me in the approach was my comparative extroversion, and decent use of routines.
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No. Not one single girl in the history of existence has ever thought to themselves or expressed to others 'I really fancy him because of his decent use of routines'. Don't be like those tranced out kids in Temple of Doom. Wake up from the delusional reality of viewing the world through weird PU filters.
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-I need to learn a lot more material
-I need to not RELY on this material
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As Hustler pointed out, this is self-contradictory double-think. You need less routines. Which would also solve the congruence issues you are having.
Peace,
kowalski