I thank thee Seniors an Juniors and Moderates (:P) for posting your replays and i have to agree... my escalation phase needs huge improvement ... so as not being a boring guynessnessness..
But at least i have understood few things that got me to her attention- 1) I was quite peacocked that day- wearin Hawaii shirt n shiny watch n stuff (not like mi usual self at all)

Tho that had an instant negative effect: just as i went into club i was attacked by some fags and it almost ruined the whole deal...just because the night wasn't meant to be like a pickup thing but rather a nice night out with mi friends).
3) Some tiny word exchanges with some other ladies... just bits n bobs tho... but mb helped the social aprovement thingy...
So the conclusion is I need to go out more... and mb get into some house parties? gosh.. so long have i not been in oneeeeeeeeee!!
P.s. Phil u make me wanna register to face book!