Great post Jaz,

Personally I don't fear commitment, if I met the right girl (she'd have to be to my highest of standards) I'd happily oblige to commit to her. Not necessarily to settle-down, marry etc but to commit to monogomously for a lengthy period of time.

One thing I will not allow for her to do is to try and change my behaviour or myself as a person, she must except me for who I am. I have seen all too many a great fun-lovin guy slowly become eaten away into a life-less hollow shell, handing over his balls and becoming half the man he used to be.

I find that hard to watch when it happens to a good friend.