Thanks Kowalski and also thanks for the advice Nick.

We have done one check and that came back negative and am having to wait a few more days before a final one so i think i've "dodged a bullet" (touch wood), and can soon concentrate more on my progression.

I was going to "do the honourable thing" because i hadn't really thought about all the implications at hand. I have been listening to what Tyler said about ex's and negativity in the Blueprint and would have been ignoring everything as well as suppressing how i really felt and put on a show that i'm happy just to raise a kid! I am fucked up enough without bringing a kid into the world whilst i'm acting my life!
I would end up creating the worlds most fucked up kid, lol!

Now time for a very quick sketchy field report as i've run out of time so may add to it later on or have to explain myself better.

Wednesday 23rd September 09
Went to the pub for a mates birthday.
Saw a girl i'd previously had a day 2 with but got LMR and since then hadn't really talked to. Got chatting with her a bit later and did the Ring Finger Routine which worked a treat (since then i am only going to use this as a last resort as have realised that as i am on the "Quest for Social Awesomeness" and i need to stick clear of all routines and lines and just be natural). i went back inside to talk to my mates with her as it started raining. Got a few texts from her whilst in the pub saying that she wanted me. Result!!

Walked her to a taxi with a few mates at the end of the night and she tried to k-close me but i couldn't do it as am still tied to the ex so just offered the cheek! grrr!! thought this may have spoilt anything from happening it until i got a text that night asking why i hadn't gone back with her and then again in the morning saying that she wants to meet up soon!

This was a massive confidence boosting day and will hopefully help me get a bit of confidence to get over my first stumbling blocks!
Just need to make sure that I play this carefully now and don't get suckered into another relationship straight after the last one so will have to be pretty straight from the start and hopefully have just found a FB!!