Openers - Page 2 - Pick-up Artist Forum

Herby · 25-01-2012, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Tw1sted

Many use "who are you", but I have found that the following:

"Hey you look friendly, who are you?"
Leads them to feel the need to live up the the assumption and be friendly.

Positive presumptions are great to start a convo.

If you see a girl anywhere reading a book:

"Excuse me I am wondering if you could help me (women are nurturing and love to help), you look like a well read person (positve presumption), can you recommend me any books to read? Every book I pick up at the moment I put down after two chapters"

Bang.

Start a conversation from there then lead with other questions. Its indirect but it always works. Try it.

nova · 25-01-2012, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Tw1sted

Also remember kids, what you acually say does not matter, it is how you say it. Come across with confidence, speak clearly and don't go inside your head. If you get a bad reaction, smile and Continue. Don't be dependant on a positive reaction or loom for IOIs etc

Indeedy do. You can literally use anything, just turn on that charm, failing that just turn her on

I found the long made up stories that bared no relevance to my life soon got me backed into uncomfortable corners, not to mention made not just the girls, but me yawn! Just go with stuff you can get excited about, stuff that let's your confidence and passion shine through. Talk about your day, what you cooked for lunch, it's all good.

dan300 · 25-01-2012, 04:43 PM

I usually cant help going in a bit cocky funny.

"Hey has anyone ever told you that you look like (insert celebrity?)"

No

"thats cos u dont"

Or

"dont waste all that good eye contact, stop & talk to me"

Or a new one thanks to frankie on cbb "this could be the day we actually fall in love", havnt used this yet but i will.

I love daygame & situational openers too it feels best & more natural.

daleinthedark · 25-01-2012, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by dan300

I usually cant help going in a bit cocky funny.

"Hey has anyone ever told you that you look like (insert celebrity?)"

No

"thats cos u dont"

haha you say that however I find telling a girl that she looks like a non-ugly celebrity and they love it. I've got a HB9 I'm dating with a slight resemblance to Rachel Stevens, that's how I opened her...

Phil · 25-01-2012, 06:50 PM

U look like susan boyle... but a fit version

dan300 · 25-01-2012, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by daleinthedark

I find telling a girl that she looks like a non-ugly celebrity and they love it.

Exact words???

Or did u say she looked like rachael stevens??

daleinthedark · 26-01-2012, 06:37 AM

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Originally Posted by dan300

Exact words???

Or did u say she looked like rachael stevens??

Tbh mate I can't remember but it went something along those lines then a bit of a joke about s-club 7...

ninjaelephant · 26-01-2012, 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Phil

U look like susan boyle... but a fit version

i know how much you hate the word " neg "

but that is a perfect example of one

Phil · 26-01-2012, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by ninjaelephant

i know how much you hate the word " neg "

but that is a perfect example of one

then call me neggy mc negalot coz i reel shit like that off all the time

Blanca · 26-01-2012, 05:36 PM

I usually say something observational and in the spur of the moment, like, "I saw this guy once in Bristol, he was absolutely sick", or, "Check this out - they do Death By Liquid here and it only cost a quid!"

Anyone worth talking to (I do this stuff with guys and girls) will be open to having a conversation. To be honest, this is the sort of stuff I do to warm up a bit and make a few friends.