Friday 18th Sept
So, I'd just read The Natural Art of Seduction (credit Richard La Ruina) and had also been spending far too much time watching PUA material online...so as you can imagine, I was very eager to try out some of the techniques I'd discovered...only I'm sat in on my own, am a bit skint and generally feel sorry for myself...now this attitude weren't going to get me anywhere...or was it?

I'm on Facebook casually browsing when a girl I knew from my younger years happened to update her status to: "xxxx is bored and wants something to do...." To cut a long story short I put my cock on the block, went direct and invited her around my house for a glass of wine, cue muchos nervousness...but, ding dong; she only say's (and I quote): "Yeah, why not it'll be good to catch up."

Holy Shit I think, is this really happening?! Yes, it is, I remind myself (This girl is a 9 in my opinion). Next we chat a little more and she gives me her home address and I go on my jolly way to pick her up. Awkwardness pursues on my part when she initially get's into the car. Fuck it I thought, confidence is key here. I had the balls to invite her round, I now need to man the fuck up and try some techniques. Now at this point I'll add that my brain was whizzing as all the gaming material was fresh in my head and I had no idea how I was going to play it...In the end I decided I'd just play it natural and play off her 'hook points' as and when they arose.

Something I quickly discovered once conversation was underway was that she had recently come out of a long term relationship and was feeling very lonely and missed the companionship etc. At this point, I had no game whatsoever and just simply became a good listener. After an hour of listening to her tales of woe, I decided enough was enough and that it was time to break rapport. "I have to show you something, follow me", I said.

I lead her straight upstairs and onto my bed where she suddenly becomes very stiff and it seemed as though something had suddenly clicked in her that said "Shit". Uh oh. I ignore and carry on with my plan of action, getting out my laptop and attempting to show her some photos I had of us when in our younger days...only by sods law it decides not to work! Whilst I'm in the process of fixing the laptop, she gets up off the bed and wanders over to my bookshelf and takes a look at my books, "Dean, what's the natural art of Seduction?" Bollocks. Game over. I attempt to snatch the book away from her but fail miserably whilst she continues to flick through the contents page with what can only be described as a look of disbelief and/or amazement. I have already accepted defeat so reluctantly let her continue reading.

"This is really interesting, you really into this?" she asks. I answer with the biggest load of bullshit ever to leave my mouth: "Yeah, but only for the psychological aspects of the book. I'm interested in learning how to relate to people more on a subconcious level and at being able to determine situations by a persons body language......" I wait nervously for her response... "Wow, that is so cool, does it work? Yadda yadda yadda..."

So, fast forward 10 minutes and we are both lay next to each other on my bed discussing something I'll admit I have absolutely no recollection of, when I decide 'It's time'. I start by running my fingers through her hair and complimenting her on the texture of it. Kino rules. I then begin to gently sniff her neck whilst telling her how incredible she smelled...after doing this a few times, she turns face to face with me and plants a kiss straight on my lips. I do not need to tell you how the rest of the story goes, but for clarity, yes I did indeed f-close.

In Summary

Facebook FTW
Direct game FTW
Listening FTW
And always hide your material when you have company, it saves a lot of ballache.

Good.

Know this though listening is good game, so long as your responses are well measured and smoothly timed. You'll seem like an oracle. Plus it saves you a lot of work and teaches you where all her buttons and switches are and how to operate them. I can sit around for hours while a girl chats on and only contribute 50 or so words. Confident, dominant, intelligent people can say to much in so few words.

Don't hide who you are. Seems like the book helped transition from awkward to intrigued. Girls love intrigue. I talk about mine Jynx and Tom's Social Awesomeness concept with all my girlies and they love it. Jaz, who runs this place, tells all his girlies about it and they love it too.


Peace,

kowalski

Fucking smooth man. Good post

Mate that sounds like the best save ever conceived. Honestly, well done for having the brass balls to do it especially after it looked to be all over.

Reminds me of when I left a suggestive note from the ex pinned up when I had another girl round a couple of weeks later. New girl only told me she saw it when I spoke to her a few days later. Whoops