Bristol Weekend - Page 2 - Pick-up Artist Forum

Summer Junky · 28-10-2009, 12:20 AM

Oh yeah Blanca, I didn't even realise you didn't open either to be honest, and there's certainly no need to apologise!! Stu's right mate you need to get this approach anxiety bull shit out of your noggin and start makin some moves. As you know, the more you approach the easier it gets, and the more you learn so it's something you've gotta get a hold on!
Heres the way I like to look at it - approaching women is not a dangerous thing to do. Theres no danger involved at all in fact! The absolute worse thing that can happen is you get told to fuck off and possibly laughed at by a bunch of people, which for sure is pretty embaressing, but it's not gonna cause you any physical harm. You can walk away from that situation with all your limbs and body intact. So, technically, theres absolutely nothing to be scared of. That feeling of fear, is totally false. There's no real reason for it, its just an exaggerated misconception that a good majority of us fall for.
Approach anyone you want, even if you know that there isn't much chance of it going anywhere, because at the end of the day you probably only gonna get one life, so don't waste any time worrying about these trivial little things such as getting knocked back. Were all just being human at the end of the day. You're a man (aren't you?) and she's a woman. It's a beautiful thing, even though a lot of people will lead you to believe it isn't.

Hustler25 · 28-10-2009, 12:28 AM

Wise words Summer!

Summer Junky · 28-10-2009, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Hustler25

Summer Junky don't worry about it. Everytime I see you you're making progress, that first set you opened was the first of any of us that night, you walked straight over and opened them, so what the conversation started flagging you opened them sober and held your own for a good 5-10minutes. The more you expose yourself too this the better you will get, you will fuck up more times but eventually things will start to click naturally.

I like winging with you, you're a good wingman we didn't try to get one up on each other and intead you give value to people and that is a good thing, that instantly sets you apart from all the other chumps that try it on with girls like that.

Yeah i guess i was just pissed off cos i know that i could have done better and didn't, which is a big frustration for me. I think my problem is I always feel like i've got something to prove to girls, and it just causes me to go inside my head like a chode. I'm slowly improving on this though.
Look forward to working on being a good wing with you man. i think this will do my game a great deal of good!

Willy · 29-10-2009, 06:07 PM

Was a good night for the time I attended!

It was nice to put names to faces and I can see nothing but good things for the future.

Everyone who approached impressed me with their different styles, hoping to create my own soon enough.

Much love.

Summer Junky · 29-10-2009, 09:46 PM

Hey Willy you should get out with us guys next time. Were trying to meet up regularly now
so if your wanting to improve then this will be the best way to go about it!