ok so sunday night i go out again this time it was harder, im not sure why maybe my mind wass trying to take the next step.
anyway i opened a cute irish girl with a random opener and she seemed to like it though she was pretty drunk, after a few minutes one of her guy friends took her away but after a while she came back and was all like "try me make your move" fuck man i shit my self i just froze i wasnt ready for that and after not saying anything she just walked away.....i was so frustrated maybe i wasn't ready for that
huh maybe i done somethin that made her so interested in the first place now if i can just figure out what

anyway i opened a nother set and got talking to them after taking my friends advice and kowalskis of just say anything, to be honest i stayed in set for about 5 mins but no ioi's from her but i thought fuck it this is how im going to learn .
After a whilea ejected to my wings disatisfaction as the conversation turned stale..

anyway my trainer and my wing lol took me back to his place as he noticed i was doing a few things that were affecting my openers and interactions... my body language..... i dont stand tall,... i peck,... i clench my fists ( this is a force of habit from my boxing days), and i dont open over the shoulder instead i point my cock right at them.....this kinda took the wind out of my sails a bit hearing this but he's right, and i wont have a good opener unless i fix these problems and apply them, then and only then will i start having interactions that i can learn from wether or not i good or bad feed back is besides the point its all good for me and a lot better than sitting on the couch wonderin what my life could be

God i really want to crack this im never gonna quit

so thats what im doing this week i am mentally and physically breaking these habbits and come thursday night im starting over with my new body language

YouTube - Alpha Male Behaviour Clip - Superman Bodylanguage

by the way check this out perfect example of beta male to alpha male body language

Good progress flickster. I wouldnt be overly concerned about 'rules' which say, don't peck, open over the shoulder etc or being too concious over your body language. Whilst these rules may have their place, rules are also made to be broken. Being too aware of them can cause you to stifle and can fuck up your game.

Now that you've got basic principles down I think you're ready to move on to more advanced material, check out 'blue print de-coded' by Tyler Durden. You're on the verge of discovering this game is about 98% inner-game.

yeah thanks for the tip hustler im allready listening o that now its mind blowing

but today i went to my local shopping centre and whilst i was there i opened 2 different women and just started chatting like we were old friends i didnt use an opener and when we were talking i just listened to what they said and made a hook..ok i dlv'd in the first set but i noticed it ...i think if i keep this up i will start to snowball with my progress and hopefully be in the place i need to be....

this pua stuff is a god send thanks for al the tips and help huys

This is absolutely top notch advice Flickster, take it on board mate.

Be wary of people piling too many rules on you mate. You already have the tools you need to become a socially awesome guy, you don't need anyone else to supply them for you. All you need is the experience and practice at using them.

I have just come back from the gym and as i was mid workout i noticed a hb9 god she was amazing.... i wanted to approach her but she was on a tredmill and had earphones in im sure i could of but i thought would be too inconvenient for both of us...(maybe this was mind finding an excuse but i do believe it would be too inconvenient)

then something clicked inside- normally when i see a girl i value as a 9 i clench up inside and think things like she's probably too good for me or maybe she has a boyfriend. But not today i thought i could have her, if she has a boyfriend im way better than he is and i should see if SHE is worth my time..

WTF this is a total shift in my mind frame

anyway i finnished my work out and had to walk past her and thought fuck it im a man and i want too look at her so i walked past and held eye contact (still couldn't approach as there was a large plexi glass window seperating us) and she looked at me and I just kept looking in to her eyes then gave a cheeky nod and she smiled back...amazing i was alpha and if i dont mins aying so myself a little sexy LOL

I think its time for me to start pushing the boat out more now so any sugestions for me too try on my next night of sarging will be most welcome and put to good use

ok so thursday i go out with the guys in liverpool again..

I opened a good few sets all opening quite easily and im proud to say that the vast majority of the time im not using canned openers so all in all getting there attention and making them speak is getting easier..I cant remember how many I opened as i was in the zone LOL but I do remember a 2 set i speaking to the target was making it quite clear she was looking for a fuck buddy, I wont bore you with the interaction as it was pretty straight forward but i failed on a shit test. She was comparing me to a Alex Reed look a like you know the cross dressing cage fighter who is going out with jordan I took that as a compliment, but after a few negs she said "I wouldnt fuck a guy who looks like him anyway" damn that was a big shit test i didnt crumble and i said "well I allready made my intentions clear were just friends dick head (jokingly)" and i failed ..fuck... anyway im quite proud that i got that far in this nteraction and think ive learnt a lot from it as i was in set for a good ten minutes and on the night i easilly opened at least ten sets


Friday again went to town and opened opened opened...this is easy now ive got it down but im struggwling with my interactions like the guys who have been winging me say you must master the art of social communication before you can master sexual communication..so thats what i did i just talked a load of bolloks about anyhting and it was working 6 good long sets shit loads of IOIs,(I opened a whole bunch more) I still havent got it down yet but if i keep pushing myself ill get there...on the pluss side i am becomig more and more aware of IOIs so thats a big pluss and i am totaly alpha in the sets I take controll of the women litteraly I mean I move them to stand were i want them I make them crouch next to me i pull them back in set when they want to leave, again I stil lhavent got this down but ill get it in time.

Saturday was more about trying new things to break our comfort zone be honest i could see the point of the excersise i.e standing at the bar with one hand raised until some one asks what the fuck are we doing then getting them and a whole bunch of other people to join in ...speaking to anyone to biuld communication skills and just holding a good conversation..to be honest i found it tough i think maybe because it was a new reallity to me but these are things i MUST do...as the 70s band the doors state break on throught o the otherside.
anyway on my way home I bumped into one of my mates who was lost and wankered lol and he knows what im into so he asked me to prove my worth..he pointed out a hb9 3 set and said "go on show me what you can do" so i did i opened them easily and they were loving the interaction until my chodey friend cock blocked me..bastard
Then somethin clicked I thought realistically ive only been sarging for maybe 15 hours total and allready i can do more than most guys can ever do and I am proud at how far me and my pua friends have come...Like i say in every post i (we) will never give up

You're making top notch progress Flick mate! Highlight of the weekend for me was your seated two set in Hannahs bar, which turned into a three set when one of their mates came over. You stood up, sat her down as well, and then went back into the now three set as if nothing whatsoever had happened! Just top class mate!

Your interactions are getting longer, which is a sign of great progress. You're losing your fear of talking to girls, and you're realising that there isn't any magical formula to it all. Say anything!

I reckon there's one thing you need to focus on: Kino. Start to break that physical barrier between yourself and a girl. Do it as standard. Remember that when you go kino, you're effectively setting the rules. You're saying to a girl 'its fine for us to touch each other, that's not a weird thing. Its 100% normal'. You'll kick yourself once you've done this a few times.

But don't let me take away from what has been incredible progress mate! You're doing a stella job!

No we don't, no we won't! Probably see you Thursday mate... Before I go and find myself some nice Polish girls to keep me entertained for the weekend!