One of my female friends told me the other night that she prefers hard rough sex, to which I replied, I'm guna fucking rage you in the bedroom then!

After reading this thread, When I do fuck her, I'm guna make sure I give her some dirty talk!

Re read this thread as suggested.Awsome m8
Something i think i may have to try.Dya think id be able to get away with doing this in a smallish town??

Honestly, no don't think I'd recommend that. I did this in London where I can get away with approaching at least 5 girls a day. You could end up being a town creep doing this!

Personally, I would recommend to someone in your position, devoting the evenings after work to do stuff to improve your life and making it better. I do things like gym, dance class, martial arts etc, but do whatever works for you. Obviously don't ignore women in the week if the opportunity is there, but try not to think about it too much.

Then maybe on weekends go into Brighton (I think that's the nearest city near to you?), meet some wings and maybe try to do 10 a day Friday/Saturday/Sunday if possible. Just so you have a target. (I had a clause that if I pulled a girl or looked like sex could be on the cards then I carried over approaches to next day - otherwise it can be a bit stupid if it's going well and you suddenly think crap I still have more approaches to do - ideal approaches in 1 night is 1 right)

I found early on this setting targets helped, although really you want to be in a place where you just approach if you want to approach.

The reason I wanted to do it everyday was to test the 30 day rule where something changes in you so it becomes habit rather than something your trying to do. The idea been that after 30 days I would just approach girls naturally all the time.

I never reached 30 days as it is tough this, so can't comment on that, but I can tell you approaching this much women does make you less sensitive to the ones that go bad and overall made me more confident with women. Also, there were at least a few days where I felt like Superman and that I could pull anyone. This was a nice point to reach. Don't think it is sustainable all the time, as humans need a range of emotions but it was cool to experience!

However there were downsides. Too much time spent on just girls, too much time spent lurking around streets and in clubs I didn't really want to be in, ignoring my friends and other areas of my life and generally questioning if this was a good behaviour for me or if I was just being a weirdo. This is why this should only be short-term!

People that are still out there every day doing this sort of stuff after years and years and it is the main area of their life I think have a problem. They seem disconnected with life and what is really important. This should not be the be all and of you forever. I certainly wouldn't want 'here lies Snake Eyes - King of PUA on my gravestone!'. No great man has concentrated solely on women (none that I can think of anyway).

However, if you keep yourself grounded and make sure you are moving forward this stuff can help and I hope you end up in that category!

Good luck and keep us updated here!

Nah not Brighton m8 probs Northampton is the closest city.Wings are few and far between here m8 plus car probs still!! So at least for now im stuck just in my small town/towns nearby on my own:s

Yeh i am trying for 10 a night on friday and saturdays, sundays if i can and anyones out.

With regard to carrying it over if things looked like they were going well.I didnt understand that?? I would have just forgot about the other openers for the day unless things started looking iffy with the target.Otherwise like yourself you ended up having to do nine openers from carrying them over and failed.

Good call on the target/goal setting ive already been doing some of that....tho i need to be strict and stick with it.

I can also see the disadvantages now of doing the 5 a day for an extended period.
Its still something i would consider doing but will wait till im living in a more densely populated place.I dont wanna end up being the town creep haha

Haha yeah is probably a bit stupid and overly complicated that carrying over thing! Seemed to make sense at time! Maybe got too much into my own rules!

Regardless, something like this seems like a good idea for you. Have you ever met wings from here? May be difficult in your area I guess

Ive been out with Giant once or twice when hes back from London but otherwise its me,myself and I.Im hoping a trip to Nottingham is on the cards sooner rather than later.Ive also tried to get a few m8s into it,but theyre not interested
So when i have a car on the road and debts have been cleared a bit more it should be a lot easier to get around.But for the present im just doing what i can do and trying to learn the best i can thru my mistakes.Ive had a lot of failures and a few successes so its not all bad man.
I have plans to relocate asap and once thats done i dont see any reason why i shouldnt give your 5 a day a good go then