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Default OMG Massive progress for me! - 24-09-2010, 05:04 PM

Hey Guys so i actually approached ten + woman today and it was scary but i did it.
Now it mite not sound alot to some of you but to me its a miracle its been ages ive known about game and suffered from AA probibly more than anyone ive ever known.
But up in town with my buddy i did it and it felt good.
Next week im going to 15 approaches.

The approaches are only to get me comfortable speaking to woman and then i can progress from there

Master Mind xxx
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Default 24-09-2010, 05:23 PM

how did the approached go how far did you take it, or was it mainly openers
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Default Hey man :) - 24-09-2010, 05:35 PM

Hey man, Yeh it was mainly just oppenners getting used to speaking to woman i got a few possitive responses and it was all good
Cant beleive i did it its took me years to muster the courage. So next week its 15 approaches and next time adding another open ended question.

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Default 24-09-2010, 06:49 PM

good work master-mind. AA is my biggest problem and to speak to ten sets in one evening is impressive in my eyes because I know how hard approaching can be!!
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Default 27-09-2010, 01:24 AM

Hmm, I don't understand why people get AA so much, all you got to think is fuck it whats the worst that can happen?

She can blow you out.
She can laugh at you.

I think thats all? And who cares if either happen seriously man? Good work on getting rid of it though. Keep up the good work, maybe get some numbers instead of moving to 15? Getting numbers is a bigger improvement than opening 5 more people. I don't really do day time approaches, mainly because I have no idea how to open day time approaches using routines blah de blah.

The only time i've been able to do it is in situations like this

I was in a shop and a HB is looking at childrens clothing, so as im walking past I say to her, "You know they aren't going to fit you right?"

Im only able to do it when I can pick things up that are in the environment at the time.

How are you opening these? I'd love to know for personal benefit.
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Default 27-09-2010, 09:59 AM

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Hey Guys so i actually approached ten + woman today and it was scary but i did it... But up in town with my buddy i did it and it felt good.
Nice one. It's these feelings / the rush that make it all the more worthy of the work.


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Default 04-10-2010, 08:41 PM

Ha, I remember standing in a club once in my younger days just trying to build up the courage to chat to a girl standing by me. After about 30 minutes of talking my self into it and building up so much adrenaline I could have knocked out Mike Tyson I marched up to her and shouted (almost at the top of my voie) "CAN I BUY YOU A DRINK!!!" I had lost so much control of my functions that I almost blew her head off my shouting it at her hahaha..... this answer was "no thanks" by the way
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Default 04-10-2010, 09:32 PM

Very cool Master-mind, best of luck for the future dude.


When you have confidence, you can have a lot of fun. And when you have fun, you can do amazing things.
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Default 09-10-2010, 07:27 PM

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Hey Guys so i actually approached ten + woman today and it was scary but i did it.
Now it mite not sound alot to some of you but to me its a miracle its been ages ive known about game and suffered from AA probibly more than anyone ive ever known.
But up in town with my buddy i did it and it felt good.
Next week im going to 15 approaches.

The approaches are only to get me comfortable speaking to woman and then i can progress from there

Master Mind xxx
Careful, worst approach anxiety I ever had was after I approached 20 women in one night. I expected the rejections, the idea was to get me more comfortable to talking to people. It totally backfired.

I found a better way to get more comfortable speaking to women [and importantly for longer and longer periods] was to apply the three second rule, and never leave a night on a bad set. If you naturally approach 15 women doing that then that's great. The number I drifted to was to open about 6/7 sets, and of those only have about 3 meaningful interactions.

Hope that helps.
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Default 09-10-2010, 07:42 PM

Dont aim to approach. While it may seem important is that really want to do?

If you actually want to talk to them and have fun with them opening will take care of itself.


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