rightt so I'm up in Miami for a bit, staying with a girl I used to live with when I was in Uni. After going out with this girl, and seeing guys hitting on her, gotta say guys in the UK are way ahead of the American counterparts.

Way ahead!

Typically what will happen is some drunk American guy will come over to my friend while at the bar and try chatting her up, standing between me and her. After a while she then gets bored and starts talking to me and he gets excluded and exits. Other more extreme examples include guys practically forcing themselves onto girls.

Number closing is easy. I dont even have to ask, I chat to a girl for a bit and go to make my exit and shes usually asking how shes gonna see me again.
Im just making interesting conversation and being british probably does help.

Day 2's next week. I met a girl at a party last night I've been texting. She wanted to meet up tonight but I'm too hungover.

Serious tho, no wonder this stuff was invented in the US.

Yeah those American girls love the English accent! They are a lot friendlier than English girls too and better looking a million times over. An American girl gets extra points just for being American in my eyes, love the accents!

You'll do well out there for sure! really lay thta English accent on thick! Those American Chodes don't stand a chance!

Last night my mate and I heard these two girls complaining they didn't know where the train was; the guy with them was useless.

We told them how to get to the station. The English girl was cool and took on the directions and seemed happy about it. The American girl was ecstatic (and pretty hot). Kino and "I love you guys!" all over the shop. The guy was just quiet...

Course, google maps messed up and we gave them the wrong directions, but it wasn't a problem for us lol...

FR from friday:
so went to a bar, chatted to a girl. she did roller derby. about 5ft3, pretty, tattoos. nice.
my friend was too drunk to drive so she got a lift with a guy and this girl gave me a ride home. we got in, did shots and laughing gas from whipped cream. she claimed she was harder than me so wanted to wrestle to try to show her strength. then she wanted to go to the pool so i took her hand and kissed her and we sat by the pool for a bit. she wouldnt go in because we didn't have a hot tub. we went inside and went into the gym and messed about for a bit.

so im thinking, right this is on. so we go back and in and she goes to the bathroom and I go into my room and set the lights good. we're making out on the bed and shes says she has to leave. so im like noo just sit here for 5, or take your shoes off then decide if you want to go after that. all that kind of stuff. but she says her mother needs the car at 6am for work, so she leaves and I sleep.

gutted. gonna try and meet up again tho in the week maybe.

aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhh

Miami

We-l-come--to--Mi-a-mi

Bien-ven-i-do--a--Mi-a-mi

I been watchin Dexter

I been watchin CSI Mi-a-mi *

I been watchin out for hot Miami sun and hot Miami fun

But I'm in London

Damn


* (well, watched it twice)

what a tease! That was a bit LMR-ish. Start textin her ASAP with some very direct sexual texts.... finish what we started... fuck her brains out...

shes coming around later to drop off my friends car. shes got some shit going on I think tho, so not gonna be like 'I want to be in you'. Just see if she wants a cup of tea.

update: shes just suggested she should come over for lunch. just woke up, so gotta get my shit together.

I think this is where I've changed over the past year or so in terms of my approach:

like so this girl turns out shes got some shit going on with her ex bf, who turns out to be a guy that I've been hanging out with a bit and was seeing her for years.
so I dropped it with her, dont wanna get caught in the middle.

before I think I would have been like fuck it and just gone for it, regardless of the fuss its gonna cause. I'm leaving this country in 2 weeks, no point messing up peoples relationships to get my dick wet.

out of curiosity, what would you guys do? would you still pursue the girl?

Is that an alias for "do you want a cup of cofee?"

and that is an alias for....

....you know what!

Wow that's like an indirect--direct--redirect! A whole new level! Blows my mind! Crazy Miami shit!

TEA is the new COFFEE is the new SEX? (in Miami)

- Make it hot and steamy.
- Sugar: raw or refined?
- Cream on top? Splashed all over?
- Some go for English tea but others like a wide variety of international flavours... lovin the Chinese tea

When I used to live in Holland, the long-term and live-in girlfriend of one of my friends announced very clearly that she fancied me ("butterflies in her stomach" she said about when she thinks of me). When her bf, my mate, was away for a long weekend on a trip, she repeatedly called me and attempted to invite me over to their place for while he was away. I was also due to leave Holland only a few weeks later, so I could have gone in cock first then fucked off out the country leaving the mess behind.

But, you consult your Moral Compass TM (available on EBay and Amazon) and decide what to do on a case-by-case basis. Here it was a long-term and live-in girlfriend, and gf of one of my friends, and she wasn't super-hot (ha-ha, Moral Compass first and foremost, then factored in with hotness) so I decided to avoid her.

I really thought about going one further and telling my friend about what his long-term and live-in girlfriend was up to, but:
A) they're both Dutch -- i.e. anything goes... although crass of me to make such assumptive generalisations
B) none of my business
C) it wasn't like one of my best friends, it was just a mate I'd known for a short while, so he can figure out himself his gf is pissed off with him / that she's on the game (she told me that he was NOT on the game elsewhere)

Does that help? Rather than my usual piss-takes. It's a case-by-case basis I think, with your own moral code.

haha not like ask her to go for coffee. that makes me cringe.
I mean when shes over, just make her a cup of tea and chill out like.

we ended up going out for lunch and hanging out at my house.

shes gone a bit weird tho - she did a post about me on facebook and is kind of name dropping me. think she might be trying to get at that guy - cant be bothered with it, so I'm not going out of my way for anything.

tell her next time its tea and crumpet