Is there anyone out there who is having much success with cold approach day game? Any f-closes resulted out of it? I would love to be good at it, especially since I've stopped drinking. It's quite new to me.

I went out just now (alone), with the express purpose of doing five cold approaches. My first approach was a 2 woman set. I went for an opinion opener, to do with Christmas presents for my sister. They gave me a monosyllabic answer and then opened the door to what must have been their apartment and slammed themselves firmly (and safely) inside.

Following this I felt disheartened (it in no way desensitised me). I feel uncomfortable annoying people in the street. It reminds me of door to door sales.

I feel much more natural opening people in a social environment. Any good openers or tips? I guess direct is better (but not too direct).

I can go out clubbing completely sober, I can be up on the dance floor as if I were pissed so don't let the drink thing worry you.

Similar rules apply for openers, time constraints and spontainous converstaion. Alot of it is in your head I think, it just seems easier at night because people are naturally more reseptive.

The thing with the day game is alot more people are out with a purpose so aren't really open for an interruption. If you can just find the right girls I'm sure you'll be just as successful.

Do you have a sister?
Are you unsure what to get her?
Do you really want the opinion of these girls on the subject?

I think that the answers to those questions will play a big part in how people respond to being asked this.

I too feel uncomfortable annoying people in the street. That is your outlook. If you think you are annoying people in the street then it will feel uncomfortable, just as you would feel uncomfortable about opening people in a social a environment if you thought of it as annoying people in a social environment.

The baby took its first step and fell down, it felt disheartened and never learned to walk. That is why no humans can walk.


Both myself and Nova have found nice girls through cold day approach. I'm sure others have too.


Peace,

kowalski

I actually do have a sister and I am unsure what to get her. I spent time thinking of an opener that I could be congruent with. However, you are right that I couldn't give a toss what these girls think about that.

I used to do cold approaches in the street, as a teenager, all the time, but it was very different. I was approaching teenage girls (which I wouldn't do now) and it was normal for young scallies to be hanging out and even drinking in the street. I was extremely direct and had some luck with it.

What is a good opener and approach for me now, in the street?

Yeah, I think you just have to be a bit better judge of how someone else will react to you.

Sometimes people will be much more shy in the day, remember in the night they're round there friends having fun and probably a bit tipsy. If you approach in the day they might be a little unnerved an worried about how to respond therefore just appear rude and run away.

May well not be what you did, may well just be there shiness. As above though don't be disheartened. I just think it's going to take that little bit more effort and attempts to ge the hang on judging the situation.

Actually I'm wondering about this, we say in the night scene you should be approaching sets for various reasons, but I'm just thinking perhaps singles would be better for day game.

Think about a situation you see a girl browsing round a shop I think she might be more reseptive to you then say 2 or 3 girls shopping because they're not looking to be entertained.

I just watched this... seems good.

YouTube - How PUA and Dating Coach Jeremy Soul Got Good at Day Game

Its funny how many Nightgamers find Daygame really hard but its just another skill to practice and get good at. I have wings who are equally good at both and think nothing of going direct on cute girls on the street as well as doign crazy stuff in the daytime.

If you're just starting out doing daygame, I would start off with basics, asking for directions, talk to other people as well as women such as shop assistants, make small talk. I often open situationally, in shops and on the street too, I have even number closed and day 2ed from this but you have to have developed good conversational skills. Just like anything it requires practice.

Once you're getting great reactions, numbers and even dates off girls you meet in teh daytime, you won't think it weird any more. I seem to have done better with opening women in book shops and I learnt pretty early on you can't use incongruent openers. You have to make sure it is congruent with the situation itself.

Some of the best Daygamers out there have had some major blowouts but persisted and now attract some very hot women. If you asked any women where they would like to meet their soul mate, its not in a bar or club but some where more romantic like a Train station, a park or shop!

EXACTLY - part of the day game is creating the romantic dreamy moment that happened when they least expected it they've been imaging all there life.

okay, this is all great, but can anyone furnish me with some examples that led to satisfying results?