Tonight was out with some old and new wings, all of whom I am pleased approached! Doesn't matter if they all didn;t get numbers but they were willing to risk some minor discomfort and open.

First set I open is a warm up set, just asking them what kind of cocktail they're drinking, nothing to write home about but hell who cares about using clever witty shit! Back to my wing then our group gets bigger, introductions are made and as the bar we are in is a bit of a cock farm we decide to change venues.

2 of my wings are in a set so I kinda scan a little but think fuck it, why approach when you can bring teh girls to you! I see this cute girl with a shirt but funky hairstyle walking towards me and open her by complimenting her top. I guess my non verbals and energy were on because she loved it, shook my hand and I kept talking, natural transition.

We played the guessing your age game, and she thought I was 28 hehe! I love it when people guess younger! She was on her way to her friends but seemed happy to be talking to me but I think I slightly messed it up when I over negged her about her watch "nice rolex, did you get it down the market" which is when she said "ok you and I have just fallen out" I didn;t really care as I could have easily have re opened her later but there were plenty more girls around a lot hotter.

While chatting to my wings and goign over what happened I noticed a 2 set both wearing sexy black dresses and showing off their legs. I decide to go direct and it pays off as my taget loves it. She is probably a 8.5 if you want to use such arbitory scales!

Me: tap on outside arm "hey I just had to say, you... have really gorgeous legs"
HBBrunette: "Oh thanks I know I have gorgeous legs"
Me: "No you don't I just told you"
HBBrunette: "I have gorgeous legs but my friend has better legs, look at them"
Her friend is very cute too, a lot slimmer, blonde, same height (in heels 5'10, fucking love tall women)
Me: I examine her friends legs "yeah but she's wearing tights"
I add some Kino but I think I coudl have thrown in a bit more, been more dominant but its all good and can learn for next time.
Can't even remember what else I said but I made her laugh, my wing came in and did a good job of winging. At one point I thought he was goign to accidentally steal my target so I positioned myself to her by saying " Hey I can;t hear you, let me come nearer"

So I'm chatting to her and I had been chatting to her friend too, who I tease for still having her English accent while living in L.A for a year. So my wing has occupied her friend while I'm chatting to her making her laugh, being aware of my non verbals because what you actually say is not as important as what your body is saying. I get a few IOIs from her and I have managed to isolate her as my wing and her friend have dissapered but unfortunately not together. She mentions casually in conversation she has a boyfriend but I keep talking and don't let it phase me. I was tempted to use some boyfriend destroyers because she was that hot but I still have morals although my dick does not hahah!

We head to a club where I briefly open the 2 girls behind us and have a laugh about her displaying her cleavage! My other 2 wings open a 2 set sat down, seemed to be goign well but then the guys on the table next to them AMogged them. One of thye guys grabbed one of the girls into him and hugged her and I saw another guy say something to my other wing but don't know what. Really pissed me off as they were doing well and getting some great results. Wasn't clear if they knew them but apparently the girls didn;t say they knew them to my wings. Maybe one of the girls had given a secret "save me" signal but still its annoying when this happens.

Good work mate sounds like a good night! What boyfriend destroyers might you have used?

We played the guessing your age game, and she thought I was 28 hehe! I love it when people guess younger! She was on her way to her friends but seemed happy to be talking to me but I think I slightly messed it up when I over negged her about her watch "nice rolex, did you get it down the market" which is when she said "ok you and I have just fallen out" I didn;t really care as I could have easily have re opened her later but there were plenty more girls around a lot hotter.

Major mistake there dude...why Neg a girl who is already attracted to you?

Ambience@ Although I have morals my dick doesn;t and teh idea with Bf destroers is you desexualise the guy. Try to bring cracks to the surface but you never put the guy down, she will do that for you. Look up stuff by Tyler Durden, he is the guy who termed the phrase 'Boyfriend Destroyer'

Loke@ Thanks I know I fucked up mess uped but when I'm in the moment I don't think. I guess I still have some of this Mystery Method shit in my head still. Anyway opened as few more sets and did better!

Maybe an over neg about the Rolex but a pretty funny tease!

So, what do you guys think is the point where you should no longer neg? When she shows IOIs?

Loke is right! I should not have negged! Haven;t made this newbie mistake in ages. ITs like you're punishing the girl for godo behaviour so theres really no need! YOU IOD when she IODs you but if she's giving you IOIs then its ok to give her IOIs back. Hell she stopped to talk to me when she coul have said thanks and buggered off back to her friends.

I have tried not to neg anymore, just tease and banter but negs I guess still have their own place but you have to calibrate.