Was out last night with my Reading guys, met up chatted, new people were introduced. I warmed up with some cocky banter at the bat by trying to get this woman to get me a champagne then a few more sets. Afterward we just head to a club where 2 of my wings are talking to 2 sexy girls behind them, both doing quite well. We get inside and its heaving! Plenty of cute girls everywhere although some people would disagree but I try not to let other people's moods affect my state. As I've been watching the Blueprint I am keen to put the concepts to use like not being outcome dependant, realising that I can trust myself to open and keep the conversation going, realising that you don't need to worry about value as you and the girl are at the same level.

I try to get some of my wings to open but most have AA or just happy to chat to each other for a bit. But its all cool because some people will just open when they want, no need tp pressure them. One of my wings did a lot better than previous weeks and I can see he is making improvements. He opened this hot Blonde at the bar and was chatting to her for ages but could not close for some reason. Anyway I noticed a 3 set and one of them was wearing this Leapard skin skirt so I compliment her and tell her she looks like a Cavegirl which makes her laugh. Introduce myself to her friends but its soo loud they can;t hear me so eject as I know there are plenty more sets around.

My wing noticed a 2 set but he hesitated too long and they went to the toilet. Now I wouldn;t advocate waiting for girls to come back from the toilet but they did so when they went to the bar, he approached them. His target was the taller one of the 2 while the other was small with blonde hair, quite cute actually. After 2 minutes I come in to wing him, no bullshit, just natural vibing.

I notice the short girl has this scarf so i pull it and compliment her as I pull it.

ME: "Love your scarf"
Her: "aww thanks, it was abirthday pressent"
I just vibe with her and simply trust myself to keep the conversation going not really thinking about where to take it but just enjoying the interaction. I allow some silences and she re opens, asking me questions. I make fun of her for being short, a student and such. I'm not being outcome dependant because I know I can go out at any other time and meet girls. When I go to close she gives me some bullshit about not having her phone so try face book to which she replies she doesnt have so bust her on this "hey do you even have electricity?"

She gives me her number and I just keep chatting to her for a little bit then I notice this drunk chode, possibly the boyfriend of the other girl. My wing seems a little unprepared for this but does his best. He see me and I simply introduce myself to him then backturn him, threat over! hehe

So in reality you don't need any clever lines or openers, you really can just open with anything and just trust yourself to deliver because we ahev all lived for a certain amount of time and should have enough stories naturally to bring into conversation.

Ooh I used to live in Reading, once sauced a girl in a house just opposite the bat as it happens (not that this information is of any use to anyone).

Solid FR.

Scamp

Thanks dude! hahah sauced? is that cockney rhyming slang for something? HOpe you learnt something from it atleast!

Reading's not too bad. I remember the first ever night I went out in Reading years ago and went to this bar called Bar 38, I swear to god, not one ugly girl in there and I was so nervous, my heart was beating so fast but now I don't get that feeling anymore!

Thanks dude! hahah sauced? is that cockney rhyming slang for something? HOpe you learnt something from it atleast!

Reading's not too bad. I remember the first ever night I went out in Reading years ago and went to this bar called Bar 38, I swear to god, not one ugly girl in there and I was so nervous, my heart was beating so fast but now I don't get that feeling anymore!