Today 10th Jan.
A chance encouter leads to a instant date and a set up for a d2 at modern art oxford. Its very kind of you to read on by doing so your'll be reading about how i talked on topics including , art ,hair dye, pea- cocking and there are a few jokes thrown in .. naturally. Thanks to the RSD blueprint decoded to give me this boost. seriously you had to be there ... !

OXFORD. Headington.London Rd. Boots to Starbucks...(Here comes the girl... love it Boots rocks)

Spot Blonde HB 7.5 Pixie Lott type with hot boots and crazy head band warmer thing... So i ran up alongside... as she walked in to Boots at same time I choose to go in

Opened and said: Happy new year ! seriously check your head gear !! wheres that from ?

HB7.5: (shocked) oh !! err what? happy new year ..its new look (laughing)

Golden:ha you mean new look for the year (jokes)... not out of a cracker then ! ... so then not a present either ...???

HB7.5: I'm too old for presents.

(HB7.5 is 21. fine art student... we've now walked up2 the hair colour section)
Golden:yeah right too old .. so i wont be ever giving you anything (cocky funny flirty)

HB7.5:You're a bit forward....

(ignoring)

Golden: Okay let me guess so you're going to dye your hair (sarcastic)

HB7.5: You're pretty observant haha (sarcastic)

Golden: yeah well i noticed you're crazy head gear.... do you wear it so you can't :whip your hair back and forth ? whip your hair back and forth ...(she laughs and breaks it into fits as i keep repeatedly singing it at her .... ala willow smith) ...so let me guess you're going to dye it red???
(HB7.5 is a fake Blondie)

HB7.5:Nah i just need to redo roots...

Golden:Well dye it some crazy hair colour i might be interested in hanging out with you... just i have tooo many blondes already... something like red that would give you a dangerous edge

HB7.5: Well we have too many people on our course with red hair so no ... i like to be different in a different way like wearing my ear warmers you noticed those didn't you

Golden: (i kinda ignore) Hmm yea so very different you take new look -the chain shop look !! (check my watch) anyways i literally have 22 minutes so once you stop holding me up from buying my lip balm (what else!) you can come with me to Starbucks and continue this awesome chat i wanna hear more art talk!

(After 10 seconds or so of laughter and me looking seriously deadpan ... first time she seen me serious as ive joked the way through this...)

HB7.5: Yeah go on then why not (smiling)
Golden replies: err way more enthusiasm please !

she complies and touches my hand , cant say my heart went, but i was touched literally !

i then say you can only touch my hand when we cross the road.. but I'm guessing you'd use the traffic lights...(Starbucks is across the road)

HB7.5: why do you say that?

Golden:coz you're not someone who lives dangerously .. like if you were one of the crazy dyed red headed art people... i mean i wouldn't even have to comment on your head gear are you pea-cocking or something!! ...

(i explain what pea-cocking is to her, she seemed to think i was same-sex from my fashion knowledge ! HB7.5 insists she was wearing head gear for practical use)

HB7.5:ha well i could set you up with this guy on my course, he has funky blue/red hair maybe you'd get as you can't handle any more blondes in your life.

Golden: (ignore her plea and attempted frame) Well i might be interested but would he laugh as much as you do ..

HB7.5: well i think you're pretty funny.(compliment)

Golden: (in style of ricky gervais) cut off point.

HB7.5: what ?

Golden:always remember the cut off point! you're pretty... ! and then you hit me with your second compliment

HB7: (laughing and confused) which is??

Golden: Something about me being funny !... anyway like let me get my balm and go

At the till i use the advantage card to my advantage and when paying the guy asks if i have a boots card.
i 'm like yeah and hes like "can you put it in there " referring to card holder and i say ....

THAT'S WHAT SHE SAID (making out HB7.5 as the SHE)...jajaja!!!

laughs all round...shop assitant lovin it !

i hugged her after my lil playfull ways

From there when we came out of boots (bouncing i believe is the term?) to Starbucks (other coffe houses are avaliable) and approached the road...

So get this now HB7.5 asks me to hold hands !! "so are we holding hands as we are risking our lives not crossing the road at traffic lights?"

HB7.5 claimed she was trying to prove a point by not crossing at lights...

Golden proved a point by letting go of her hand after we crossed...

Starbucks (please note other coffee houses are avaliable LOL!): we briefly talked more about what we do and i was somewhat interested in the art and her passion for it and as i had to jet i mention how interesting modern art is and have set up a D2 for thurs...Number closed and it is only then she realized she never knew my name...

HB7.5 asked me for it as i took her name and swapped numbers.

Golden says i ll tell you Thurs.... you'll just have to think about ME till then ...!


HB7.5 has since kindly sent me a text "LOL such fun meeting you earlier if i guess your name rite before thurs will you tell. ??xx"

I wont be contacting her till Thurs just the way i roll.
And now i'm just gonna relax with a glass of milk.......apparently pixie drinks lots

Keep it natural

Awesome man! YOu have a great sense of humour! You have your own catchphrase "Thats what she said" I can see thta on your tomb stone lol! And from personal experience I know you have a million other approaches like this you could post.

You know dude when I first started out I would always wait til the girl asked my name but I realised thats not even necessary. Its perfectly ok to introduce yourself early. I mean you already know thats what Tyler does, infact he uses that as an opener.

It went well because you were being self amusing and not really caring too much about the outcome! You have loads of confidence and you're a natural entertainer!

jaja ty amigo !!
i just saying thats all i'm really not one for writing posts. must learn more.
that's what shes said was on american workllace the office not my pharses anyone can have... was natural in this one so it went swell...

Well done man, your game is solid as always I'm actually free tonight now if you fancy meeting up. Anton should be out as well.

/Loke

I used to live in Oxford, in 2000. I lived in Jericho, I remember Headington and going drinking in the Purple Turtle, Oxford Union, and up the Cowley Road. There were loads of techno parties in houses and out in the country, mad old days.

@ loke ty and nice belt you purcashed yester! But next time let me sit in the cool seat !
jaja remember that guy at the coffee shop longing for his younger days!

@ midas ty for your time and comments.
Oxford is a wild historic place !!


I guess to say what i learnt from this set is that i was instant and natural
i kept it flowing and i was somewhat fortunate for the girl to be amazingly friendly she had a great vibe and got the humour thing. Of course there are many occasions when the girl hasnt been suited to me.

I use to blame others (the girls) and then i blamed myself and now i'm just trying to say "what the hey!"

IMO and thats what counts my game is no way totally solid but i just have to go with it and try and continue to improve. 1 out 4 yesterday open to close going about my day.

And let me end this post with some humour

I remember going to the club and trying it on with girls they just didnt want to know...so i tried to avoid being humiliated by going up to the ugliest, fattest chick and asking, "hey babe, wanna suck me off?" - but it was to no avail, she merely replied, "not in a million years".

I ended up at home alone having a wank and crying.

You may be wondering what the joke is here.

It was me.

You know dude, even before you watched the Blueprint you were getting instant dates. I'd be chatting to you then you'd be gone and I'd be waiting for you to either get her number or come back from your instant date hehe! You seem to meet more women than Hugh Heffner lol!

From watching the Blueprint you will be even more awesome! Countless times I have seen girls giving you IOIs and loving your company. Keep it up (excuse the pun hehe)

what's that you say keep it up ??

(101% Successful Chat up line)

Your dad must have been a chicken farmer because you sure know how to raise a cock.

It was good up until the point you said you're not going to contact her until Thursday. Talk about crossed signals.

You start off appearing as this open and spontaneous guy, and then you hold off continuing the conversation with her (as well as missing out on some pre-D2 text escalation).

Spin it around. A girl starts chatting to you, you give her your number and then you don't hear from her for days. Guarantee that you'll think "fuck her then" and mentally move on. We've all been there.

My thought on the matter is don't play games or be a douche, if you like the girl, just text her

@BCB ty for your comments and time amigo.

Totaly hear what you are saying. There is not any doubt at that all this D2 escalating texting phone call stuff is often necessary.

I like the girl and i think what works for someone won't work for another. On this occasion I am not contacting her till thurs. (she has left me a v. mail wondering about thurs but she only has 1 day to wait)

As i see it all girls have validity, importance and equality of respect and thats how i treat them. Come thursday she has chocie to decide her destiny, and her decision can be changed.