Absolutely as long as you feel natural go for it!! as I said before everyone has their own ways to achieve their goals just want to add one thing, there is a fine line between please people and bring good feelings to people. cos no matter what games we play down the line it's the gooding feeling that attracts people. Pleasing people is like the person has a purpose and when we have a purpose we arent natural no more. Bring good feelings to people is kindness, innocent and pure love above any games, cos we aren't looking for anything in return. Trust me on this one people can tell you whether we try to please them or just enjoying a great conversation.

About the girl talks to you in the club. You did one of the most natural things of telling her it's time to party not talking and Of course it's definitely an IOI!!

At last what if a girl don't have any imaginations on Hip Hop? I assume your strong reality has to kick in right?

Respect!

Unique

Such a great thread!
I am totally guilty of this and you both have given me a eureka moment!
I am going to be more aware of this in general and as you have already mentioned it sub-communicate great qualities. Such a simple subtlety but will be so affective!
Absolute quality - Thanks guys!

Haven't read the whole thread just the original post. Great post, it sounds like you haven't been involved in this for as long as many here but it's impressive how quickly you had that 'epiphany'.

Who needs to read the Mystery Method etc etc when you could save yourself a whole lot of time and effort by taking on board the points raised in Uniques post.