Saturday night, out sarging.

Started by talking to a girl who was waiting for her friend, and after insulting her about her choice of drink, before revealing I was drinking water, we talked more and I got her number. I wasnt that interested but it was a good start.

I went on to get three more numbers that night, but there were two reoccurring themes that came up. So looking for some help on these....

The first was, the girls I was talking to were in pairs, so it became very difficult to isolate the target. Having learnt the art of keeping both interested to avoid one dragging the target away, I found it very difficult to get the number of the girl I liked without insulting the other girl. This happened more than twice on the night. It also stopped me building comfort with the target, as I had to be the party guy throughout to keep both interested.

So the only way I did it, was by getting both of the girls numbers, but it didnt seem right, I just said that we should all go out another time, so I asked for both their numbers and they both gave them to me. Not sure if this was right, and having texted the target, there has been no reply, I think there wasnt enough comfort building. Any solutions to this next time?

Secondly, twice, the two sets I was talking to consisting of two girls invited me outside for a cigarette. I dont smoke but went along. Not sure what this means, or if they were just curious, or wanted entertaining outside. Any ideas?

Also better to call or text a girl once you get a number? I was suck with this part. Thinking I need to escalate quicker, and kiss close on the night to avoid the flaking?

Lucky

For two sets I believe that Jaz did an awesome post. It may be stickied.

Anyway jist of it is ask the obstacle whether she thinks you should take the targets number. Get's her involved and she can't seem like a bitch in front of her mate.

Rock n roll

i figure it's just an IOI. and also remember, the more places you bounce to with a set,
the longer it seems you've know each other.

It sounds like you could do with a wing to help you manage the sets. That'll solve this problem.

As for the numbers - there is no reason that you can't just get the number of the girl you like, and then just text her.

If you get both girls numbers having shown an equal amount of interest in both, then they're both gonna be thinking 'I wonder if he likes me or her more?'

You then present whichever girl you do text with a problem, in that she may not wish to come across to her mate as 'Oh look, he text me and not you. Whadda ya know'. She may think its best to keep quiet and not let it become an issue. By getting both numbers, you're not being clear which girl you like which can present problems.

Don't read too much into this. They were inside, they wanted a smoke, they had to go outside for a smoke, they asked you to come along too. Its a good sign for sure - if they weren't interested, then having to go outside for a smoke is a nice convenient excuse. But otherwise, don't scrutinise and analyse this too much, its probably much more straight forward than you think.

I'd say - and this is only my opinion and a rough rule of thumb that I'd use, open to debate and hardly a solid methodology - if its on the same night you met her, then text her. The day after, phone her. If she doesn't pick up, leave a funny message for her to pick up.

Hope that's of some use.

define 'leave a funny voicemail' please, i can imagine panicing and saying something offensive or doing an embarrising voice. Are we talking funny voices here? I guess the only applicable thing I'v evr seen is Sasha's routine of 'You're so hot you made me shit myself. I need you to pay me four pounds to buy new underwear.' ...?

Damn, I thought we'd heard the last of that MPUA guru (aka relentless spammer) on here.

You sick of him? Was he chased out of the forum or something? I'll never mention him again. funny line tho.

Ummm I can't answer that actually. Looking back I did post it without thinking (wasn't in a great frame of mind last night).

On second thoughts - don't worry about being funny. Just leave a voicemail. You're dead right that if you're thinking 'be funny' you probs won't be funny.

Ha ha ha ... ever get the feeling that someone is taking the piss?


How many times do you think that tool has actually said that to a girl? I reckon 0. Read his posts here they are obviously fabrications. They're about as believable as the agony aunt page in the Sport. It is sooOOO blatant that the guy talks shit.

This line is the joke of a failed comedian and the joke is on the PUAs. He never once said this ridiculous shit. They just think it's funny to tell the 'tards who follow them to say this shit to girls, because it amuses them that they will actually do this shit just because a blatant failure of a man tells them to.


Peace,

kowalski