I think the Sampmeister is dead. Long Live Slick.

Fri - 26th June

I was out a few times this week. Friday was the better day so far. Met up with Kowalskis FB mates to go into the birdcage for a little while. One of the mates was HBblonde, so I flirted with her a bit. Was doing some teasing - some push pull, but just fell short of really pulling her. We went, I went in for the kiss close. Got her lips, but no tongue....she said "you trying to snog me?"
errm.... I got her number though, and we bailed.

My interactions seem to be getting stronger - since girls are starting to open me, ones that I opened previously, minutes before. Happened last week in Jillys. Anyway - had a good interaction with this two set, Kowalski joined in. I messed it up a bit, I was worried about the non-target, even though Kowalski was winging...I think I had a headache developing that messed things up a bit.

Anyway, got rechatting to the barmaid I number closed a few weeks back. We went outside and shared a fag together...gave each other lots of hugs. She went back to work after...I should have said "what time do you finish?"..but I was feeling a little ill at that point...so I bailed home.

I sent her a cheeky little text this morning...no reply yet...

My thoughts:
Just plod on and open more sets - work on Pull-Push and close . Need to internalise loads of shit...

Over and out

Saturday 27th June

Went out with some of the guys. Went to Blu first. Basically, the way I rock is that I need to open sets to get in the mood. It's like when I sing, I need to do warm up to get my flow.

Anyway, slowly got into state, I love asking crazy openers I make up on the spot like "can you do an evil laugh?"... it gets girls cracking up.

Anyway, I headed off to 42nd street. Opened a few more sets. Guys just come up to you and congratulate you on being good with women. When I open sets I Kino a lot, but I still got to close more often. Its usually 2 sets and I'm still trying to work out how to engage my target and not the the other girl feel left out! This I think is my MAJOR stumbling block..Get this sorted and I will be at the next level! I know how to close now, it's just getting the group dynamic sorted to isolate my target.

Anyway, did the classic ciggy opener "can I buy a fag?" and just sit down next to them, start chatting bullshit and Kino alot. Got her number. Apart from that no major K-Closes - -

Although I'm about to arrange my second ever day 2....more on that later (if it materialises)

Final Thoughts:

I am enough....do you need to get better at game? Do you need that extra routine? Do you need to buy that one final self help book..? NO...you are enough....get rid of your social conditioned bullshit (I'm too short, I'm not this ..blah blah)...think sexual, be a man, be in the moment...and strike...

Easier said than done...just go out and practice..get experience..get blown out, get told to fuck off...............

Tyler Durden " go out, start a fight, and lose it"

Ramble over...enjoy marshmellows...

Oh and I F-closed Kowalski 3 times.....

That makes me laff, geezer!

So do you think 42nd is a good place for PU? I think I need to go to another venue other than the northern quarter.

Was it just you in 42? I don't think i'm ready for solo game but i'll wing you if you want? That might solve your problem of leaving the other girl left out

Not solo - I met another PU there. I like going to clubs later on in the night. If you're game to come to 5th Av or 42nd street with me be my guest! Also Mojos (near 42nd street) is really cool.

And into July we go!

Sarged Wed, Thursday and Friday so far, this is how it went:

Weds:
Was out with Swype, his girlfriend and her sister. Had a fun night - opened some sets, had a go on the pole dance. Nothing really of note pua wise, but fun none the less.

Thurs:
Out with some new guys (Nova and Hustler) and Kowalski (who I'm turning gay) - how you doin guys? Some interesting interactions....As a PU - you make friends with everyone in the bar, not just girls - everyone is interesting! Jynx will go up to random strangers all the time and befriend them - I've started to do that too awesome! I even helped a random dude get a job last week, who I met when I solo sarged!

Anyway, gotting chatting to this girly - nearly number closed - she had to shoot of with her buddys and kinda half K-closed her, but she was loving me for a time - loads of Kino - cool interaction.

Friday:
Well - I'm definately getting better - or something weird happened. I bought this extremely tight top from Top Man - with like a Wolf on it. I was a bit aprehensive to wear it (was gonna wear it Thursday).

Anyhow, I wore it - with really tight jeans, and like a fake tattoo on my neck. I'm sorry - but I was well Peacocking - but in my own unique way. I walked outside and I was getting stared at straight away - by both men and women - interesting - so I chose a frame - I own this weird tight t-shirt and my tattoo - I'm a man - I fight lions - I can do what the fuck I want! This is the frame I kinda maintained through the night-

I had some cool interactions. I did my first number close in Walrus - I wasn't sure whether I fancied her - but got her number - just to show myself I can number close no prob now in a good interaction.

Then we went to 5th - I was getting loads of attention from the ladies. One girl, she was rubbing my nipples - and I was stroking her face - I'm sorry, but I was getting well turned in by this - wouldn't let me number close - boyfriend - lol. I was getting loads of compliments - opening and kinoing ladies loads, and generally having fun. Made friends with some guys - random dudes opening me, as if I'd known them for years! Random ladies coming up to me and feeling my nipples (tight top). Anyway - spotted this cute little blonde - danced with her a bit - kept coming back to her - danced a little. Then at the bar we chatted briefly - and I K-closed her. First ever K-close in 5th Avenue! I got her number then! But her friends kept dragging her away - that made me lose state a bit - if state decreases - attractiveness decreases. I texted her that night about facebook - she flaked.

Very fun night never the less. So peacocking works to an extent - but I think it's more how it effects your frame - I shouldn't go out and seek a reaction from people - I am aiming to be NON-REACTIVE - carry on regardless - so if I'm in a good state - unless there's been a murder in the club - I stay in that good state - because I know I'm a man - and I fight tigers. Oh, I did a classic Jinxy move to a shit test. I opened some girls outside - one of them told me to F-off in a way - I said the classic line "hey whats your problem - I'm a nice guy!" - she somehow turned more polite and apologised - I kissed her on the cheek - so no harm done -

Most of the game I was playing that Friday was about dominance intent and woo - natural tim stuff - I didn't use bubbles (me and u scenarios). I did talk some random bollox in some sets which is always good.

I wanna aim for an extraction on the night - back to my gaff!

over and out

sapmi, all i can say is for friday in the 5th ave queue when u were stoking that girls face:

YOU SHOULD OF SEEN HER EYES. she was so PRIMED for a kiss.

make sure the kiss happens next time im around u.

Hi Sapmi,

I just read through all through your blogs within this thread - wow! I found it interesting, it seems like you are really progressing. Congrats man!

I actually went to uni at the MMU. I only stayed for a year because I took the wrong course. I Wish that I had known about all this SA () crap back then and about you guys. I'm moved back down south to Chetlenham by the end of the year. It's a long way away, but seriously if you ever want to sarge here, we are lucky enough to have the most beautiful girls in the UK. This is a fact anyone would agree with who has been here!

I have one question being new-ish to all of this. I remember reading about kino, you mentioned it a lot. What exactly is it again?

Peace,

This describes kino better:

Kino is one of the key elements of pickup. Kino helps to establish a precedence of touching a woman, and can also be used to communicate sexual interest in a woman. This can help prevent a PUA from ending up in the friend zone. Overt kino can also be used to arouse a woman and get her into a sexual state.

Psychological studies show that casual touching during a friendly conversation causes people to remember the conversation more fondly after the fact. In pickup, starting kino early establishes touch as a normal conduit of one’s behavior, and can help with escalating smoothly to the bedroom.

AFCs often to not build enough kino during an interaction, waiting until the last minute to go for a kiss, which seems forced and awkward, because there was nothing leading up to it. The general rule with kino is to use it often and early (with some calibration, of course).