Actually have you heard from the girl since?

Mate, you have become a tool manufacturer

Right now you seem to be in a place where you do not have much success, as in shags.

So shouldnt you take anything you can get, regardless of how you get it?

No not heard back from her. 2 be frank i wouldnt want 2 offend her friends any more than i have.
As far as that stunner i let go
twice, ill def take ur advice and not lose them.

S.B.D .... Really ? Did you honestly just tell someone to take whatever you can get and just throw standards out the window .

I understand that your trying to help a guy get his leg over but don't be telling people to 'take whatever you can get' ....

That's just not in the spirit of what we do at all !

Persist
Perpetuate
Prevail

well mark only wants sex so good advice

I'm with Swype, I think that would be pretty terrible advice. If it's just sex people want, save the money you rinse on a Friday and Saturday night and buy whores instead.


Peace,

kowalski

mate, fuck what they think? lol. if ure taking her out on a date do you think shes gonna bring em? NO.

Guys, i understand what you are saying.

Look at what he wrote....a girl shows interest in him and then he rejects and shows disinterest in a her because he didnt want it to seem like she was the dominant one!! Thats fucked up, his whole belief system is not directed to the same place.

I know how his brain works, its different to ours, he see's social situations as black and white, but they are not. One belief he has is telling him to be alpha and in control and not let the girl lead, the other is telling him that he wants sex. Strangely he obeys both, which obviously as seen in practise shows that they contradict each other in HIS MIND.

So with Sapmi you have to make it plain and clear.

Are you saying he's simple?

Sapmi,

When dealing with pricks like those guys you mentioned earlier the best course of action is to be non-reactive, they are seeking a reaction from you, if you give them a negative reaction i.e. being angry or by lowering yourself to their pitiful name calling antics you've lost. Instead show restraint.

Sometimes surrender is victory.

Read the following blog post from Cajun, an instructor with Lovesystems for a more detailed explanation of this;

Cajun's Spice: Advanced Body Language Part 2