A bit of background

Since January i’ve been going 5 nights a week, I approach anywhere between 10- 15 sets a night maybe more, sometimes less depending on whether it’s week night or quiet.

Do I have any friends anymore. No.

Have I turned into an alcoholic, no because I only drink water or coke.

I think I may have mentioned this before but I’m seeing it more and more, girls getting wise to PUA , sure you can be as natural as you want but if you’re confident, engaging them in fun banter and playing cool, she’s gonna know this is not a typical AFC, even your typical alpha male while being good is still going to interview the poor girl to death because he lacks game knowledge.

I had a girl last night, she suddenly starts acting like she knows the punch line to some joke, then she comes out with, ‘you’ve used the words like attractive, miss popular, then you’ve attempted to make me question myself and all this in the hope that you can get my number, with huge cheesy grin on her.’ She then gave her girlfriends the ‘rescue me’ look.

I decided to play dumb, at least for a while, they were a fun bunch, so I came clean, they became fascinated and two of them buying me a drink. I did number close one of my targets friends and got a kiss for my efforts. The bottom line PUA’s appear in women’s magazines on a regular basis, as the industry grows so does its exposure, girls talk to each other a lot, fuck they love to talk.

Is there a moral no. Can we keep PU a secret no. So all is lost no.

Step up your game, make opening as fluid as possible, mix up your game, it doesn’t have to be as linear as books tell you to be and above all STOP using canned material, even If you’re just starting out. If you’re using something pulled from the net, that everyone can view well, guess what your chances just went down.

I’m not trying to add stress to guys that are just finding their feet, just be aware that you are going to come up against a girl that knows the game and all that really means is you have to work harder and smarter.

Hence the need to make game as personal to you as possible.

I once used the same female opinon opener on the same two girls that I had used it on a week before. Cringeworthy as fuck... needless to say I scuttered off, clenching my teeth, and with my tail between my legs

Should have just said i needed an excuse to talk to you because i fancy the arse off you

they had already blown me off once before... I think they were well aware of it by that point. They were just a couple of cold anti-social bitches anyway... at least to me.

After that I really had to force myself to open the next set. I used a "no opener" and they were fantastic, even poured me a glass of champagne.

where are you from in west yorkshire Refl3x? I used to live in Hebden Bridge. I lived close to Huddersfield too, in a town called Penistone (Penis town).

Origionally from near rochdale but currently living next to bradford in keighley, moved here with my job
--where are you right now Midas pal?

I was born in Rochdale. So was my mum. Irish immigrants. Then lived in west yorkshire, then Bristol, then west yorkshire, then south yorkshire, then oxford, then northern irleland, then prague, then northern ireland again, now Palermo.

and I have family scattered around London and Manchester, so I've spent a lot of time in those two cities too.