Was out again with my Reading boys and we hit a couple of bars. I had more AA than usual but still managed to open a few sets. THe first bar we were in was mostly people who had come for a private party so some of us split up and went to this nice cocktail bar I know. As I was at the bar some girl wanted to pass something to her male companion, not sure if he had opened her or they were together. One of my wings just moved out of the way and i refused because she didn't bloody say excuse me. I guess its because years ago I would be too quick to move out of the way when guys were trying to get through without even saying excuse me or just trying to budge their way past.

I finally moved when the guy asked nicely but I heard her say some negative shit like "that guy's got a problem" pisses me off because part of me wants to stand up for myself without having to resort to violence and the other half wants to hurt both these motherfuckers so bad I'd leave them disfigured! Oh well can;t let these things ruin a good night.

I go back to talking to my wings but AA has hit me hard again so we decide to go to another bar before we made our way to the club. I notice a girl in this bar I have seen around in my home town and she also goes out in Oxford too. I believe she was in my sisters year so decide to chat to her just as a way of warming up and building some momentum. Finally eject then go down stairs with teh guys but again another private party but still open to other people.

Finally made out way to the club and all my wings have managed to open so I am pleased for them even if they had to have a couple of beers to do it lol Unlike myself who is always 100% completely sober as I woudl rather feel the pain as it is a greater sense of achievement of you can chat to girls sober. Infact this was to be a major DHV for me later on in the night.

We are on the top floor of the club which is the smoking area. Sat down I'm chatting to another of my wings, just chilling after he as managed to hold court with 4 cute girls. I hope he managed to bang one of them atleast lol
Anyway a little later on I am with another wing of mine sat down when a girl asks if she can sit there. Then her 3 friends joins! This is beautiful because its an easy way to open and i just start chatting to all of them.

THe girl next to me is this cute Blonde, although a smoker, we have a good chat, banter with her friends. I'm getting IOIs, her flicking and playing with her hair as she is talking to me and also askinng my name. Usually i will introduce myself but I forgot to but as she was invested she asked. It was a fun natural conversation then she was telling me where she had been on holiday and qualified herself saying how she had a lot of fun not drinking, just like me while in Ibiza. Somehow she moved the topic on to a sex museum she had been too. Can;t believe how dumb i was, she was obviously interested but I was playing it too safe and didn't pull the trigger although maybe i didnt want to taste her ashtray breath. In any case her friends did ask her if she was going to stay chatting to me because they coudl see she was into me but i guess some girls are scared of losing their friends in a club.

Lessons: - GO for it, even if I make a tit out of myself, i.e kiss close or number or jesus fuck close!

- Open more and not care what other people think or allow my state to be dictate by other people

- Open in every bar/club

- keep talking until I am asked to leave or they make some excuse. I am the best option for any girl so I should trust in myself!

- No more Mr Fucking Nice guy, blow out or blow job! Get that pussy! because if you act like a pussy you wont get the pussy and we should not be afraid of pussy because we came out of a pussy! lol

Sounds like you learnt a lot from the night, even if things didn't quite go your way.

Don't hold back, especially if the IOIs are there!

Word.

True That! (heard that from this film with Damon Wayans and Adam Sandler) Anyway how you doing dude?

I'm good man, intending to re-visit the scene of my cop-out (Westfield) on Saturday!

Dude I know you could be awesome! You could always do a one on on with my coach Russ, he is really good at daygame as well as teaching it too.