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15-04-2011, 07:06 PM
Hey Winner
Nice work on instant dating this girl. Its easy to say what you could have done better once the situation has passed but something you can do instead of asking her what she does is make a silly assumption "i bet you work for NASA as a Rocket cleaner" lol
Did you just want to spend time with a girl without any agenda or did you actually want to let her know you liked her? I do both direct and indirect, both I believe have the place but sometimes you can save yourself a lot of time by being direct and showing more intent. But even if you have gone indirect you can show some intent, tell her how sexy she looks in what she is wearing, do some push pull, flirt with her.
Sometimes the boyfriend response come up because A) she genuinely does have one, B) she is not attracted to you or C) she is testing you to see how badly you want her.
I have managed to number close girls who had boyfriends, either because they thought they could have me on the side or use me for other things. Like one time number closd this Chinese girl in a bookshop and then went direct on her after going indirect. She said "you might see me around with my boyfriend" soo funny but the weird thing is she did ask me if i was on the same train and then a couple of weeks later she called me asking me if I coudl give her lift from the station to her car as she had heels on. Basically I just let her talk on the phone for ages and didn;t move, she got a taxi in the end.
I think its good to make your intentions clear so she doesn;t get confused with a guy being friendly. She has to be reminded you have a dick and not a guy who is going to be a male girlfriend!
Last edited by tony77; 15-04-2011 at 07:13 PM.
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