So I'm in Bangkok, you know ladyboys and hookers, the first of which I haven't seen any of.*
Went out the first night, in a bar absolutely teeming with hookers, I mean literally 2 hookers to each guy. I was like 'fuck me I bet it's impossible to pull in this city'. Went home early without even a sniff, a bit tired from the flight and just not feeling it.
Second night. Went out again, in a basement club and there's a blonde, about an 8, but she was 'alpha female' (??). Dancing around the place and showing off, loving all the attention. My mates dared me to go up to talk to her, which is something I just can't do yet. Cold approaching for me is the scariest activity on the planet!*
But I got talking to a Danish girl in the smoking area, not very good, about a 5, worth the practice though eh? After a few minutes she tells me shes got to go home because she's just found out her dad is dying. Oh shit! I told her i was sorry to hear that and left her with her friends.
The lights come on and we move to another club, where some south African guy gets everyone in for free.*
So I was amoging (not sure if that's the right word, but just being centre of attention) a lot of guys, anyone at the bar next to *me I was like 'hey how you doing?!!' with a pat on the shoulder and a massive smile, finishing them all with a handshake and a 'have a good night mate'. But the best example was this canadian guy who had been in the club I was in before. He's in Thailand studying Thai kickboxing. He suddenly got into fight stance and moved towards me throwing kicks and punches (not actually trying to knock me out, just trying to make a point I suppose). So I stand there and pat his shoulder quite hard, lean forward into him and say 'wow dude that's amazing'.( notice the word dude, i wouldnt usually say that but thats the kind of guy he was, and it worked a treat)
He instantly stopped and we had a conversation about his study. At this point we're surrounded by quite a few girls and if I would have cowered off, even in a playful way, he would have been alpha, but in my opinion what I did was the best way to handle it, and at the end of the night I saw him leaving the place womanless!

I'm dancing away now, fairly stupidly and manage to grab the attention of a small Thai girl, about an 8. Hands on the hips straight away, bump and grind, escalating pretty damn quickly but she's game as fuck so it just spurs me on, I literally had no fear. I go in for the kiss, she kisses back, boom. At this point I had a pang of fear; 'she better not be a hooker' !!
So drink and dance the rest of the night away with her, write her name down in my phone so I can get her on Facebook which is a really good thing to do as early as possible in the night because I like a drink or 2, and I find it handy to have her name written down for future reference

The lights came on, end of the night, what now?? I literally told her I was going where she was going, but in away where it didn't seem a big deal...

Her.....where are you staying? (as in where's my hostel)

Me...... It's not far but il come home with you (straight faced, no cheekiness,)

Worked perfectly.

Get a taxi back to her mates flat with this Belgian guy who her mate had pulled.*
I remembered reading on here the other day that you should look into a girls eyes and just think about all the nasty stuff you want to do to her. So I tried it. In between various conversation I look in her eyes and think to myself 'I'm gonna fuck you so hard '. And actually visualised what it was going to be like.
When I started doing it to her, the look in her eyes changed, i swear this was the deal clencher, she was pretty much putty after that.

I take my girl in the bathroom at her mates flat and over the course of the next 45 minutes (ish, I dunno I was a bit pissed by this time) I have the best sex I have had in my life!! Seriously this girl was something else, really was.*
After this we had a shower and she gave a full body massage, I didn't think it could get any better.*

Because we had undressed hastily, my shirt was on the floor and got soaked by water from the shower. So she irons it for me while I sleep!!!!! Then wakes me up in just knickers and gives me a lubed up handjob while licking my balls!!! I almost fell in love, until the hooker thing came into my head again. I was shitting myself, I only had about a £10er on me!

But I just said 'Iv got to go now I'm checking out of my hostel today I need to pack'. She *said 'ok I need to sleep anyway, it was really nice to meet you'. And then let me out of the flat. Not even a hooker!!!!

The gamiest pull Iv ever had, but it seriously worked, and I didn't let it take over my night either, if I didn't shag her I would have been happy with the kiss and could easily have gone home, and I think that's an important frame if mind to be in.

To whoever wrote the post about looking in the girls eyes, I can't remember who you are but thank you, it worked!

So ye just a load of bragging really, but I think there's some useful stuff in there, and sorry if this isn't written very well I'm writing it on an iPhone and it's hard to keel a track of everything Iv written.*

Any comments welcome

Cheers

Good work man

That's the one there, it's either on or it isn't - no pussyfooting around

loved the way you dealt with that Canadian guy. A true martial artist fights with his words first his fists second.

reminds me of a book I read called the art of fighting without fighting. You let him keep his ego in tact without showing weakness.

I highly recomend that book by geoff Thomson and also by him the three second fighter.

I never get into fights and if I do, I wont be seeking the glory, I'll be seeking the win.

When you can't pull a thai girl in Thailand you have some serious problems.

I've been there a couple of times and know the score. Even the girls who aren't hookers want to get together with a "furang" western man. It's a huge thing for them. Even the student girls will sleep with westerns and expect some money in the morning. However they'll never ask just subtly hint at it.

Even if this girl was the exception it's hard to know for sure and just the thought would put me off. After my trip to Thailand in December I started getting into Pickup in the UK now that's a real challenge.

Mark