Must have approached 7/8/9 sets of 2/3. And oh my god did i have butterflies!!

Realised as a begginner that it is soo hard chasing up behind a set without startling them which tells me i need to spot sets from a distance and the abide by the 3 second rule.

It was so much easier opening comfortably to a set that are standing still talking or sitting down.

Didnt get any number closes as most of them were tourists over here for the bank holiday and married.

Still have major sticking points in observational openers and think that any functional openers are stupid without going direct straight afterwards.
Then transitioning into a convrsation is the next challenge but i think i need to quickly observe something about them (eyes, dress, smile (or lack of), pace).


Any comments or tips to get over sticking points. I can imagine good results in day game would feel soo much more sweeter than night game results.

Cheers

How was the bootcamp Jake?

It was intense but amazing!

It concreated alot of the processes for me and showed me that things actually work.

Alot of other things went on aswell: fashion, lifestyle, conversation and story coaching.

Petrified with fear alot of the time ha Buts its going to be slowly weaned out of me.

Hey Jake

Well done for getting out there! You can always take one of these tourists on an instant date. You live here and you can be their tour guide lol! If you want to improve your observational and improvisational skills, try some improv and also instead of approaching girls, just think what you might want to say, look at what they are wearing, what they are doing and think of funny interestings comments/statements but dont necessarily approach. By doing this you build up your desire to approach so much so that you get approaching.

To help get outside of my head I do some meditation and focus on other things rather than pick up although I will set myself goals like doing a certain number of sets before a certain time. I don't always like to run up to a girl from behind but if i see a girl coming towards me I make compliment her on something, transitioning why using my observational skills as well as making funny assumptions about her. Don't ask too many questions, instead make statements, relate to what she is saying and ask questions but make statements too.

If you do feel a lot of fear just warm up with basics like asking for directions then try to notice something about her, her clothes, her accent, whatever and keep the conversation going.

Try not masturbating for a while. I have fond this really helps me as it gives me more sexual energy. Its like the horniess couteracts my fear!