Today I just finished work and was thinking of doing some daygame but still a bit tried. On the platform I notice this sexy Indian girl with a black leather skirt and a black top with white poca dots. Decided I was going to somehow open her but not on the platform.

The train was quite crowded, standing room only so i was luckily standing near her. So many things came to mind as to what to open with. Noticed she had these sexy flat shoes with gold straps on them but being aware of the environment I noticed her big suitcase was getting in people's way so all I had to do was comment on this.

Me "Its such a pain having to carry a suitcase on a train"
Her: "yes I know and this one isn;t even mine, I'm carry it for my friend"
Me: "oh I see, is it one of those situations where someone has asked you to carry the suitcase for some odd reason?"
Her: she laughs "no its not like that"
Her: "I'm taking it to London"
Me: "You're taking it all the way there, you must be a good friend"
We talk about where she is from and turns out she is from California as well as originating from Pakistan.
Me: "So I'm guessing you're from India"
Her: "close, the one next door"
Me: I get all playful and say "oh China"
Her: "haha no the other side"
Me: "Oh Nepal"
Obviously I know its Pakistan but I thought I'd add some light humour. Tease her a little about whatr she is studying as she is studying Law.
Me: "so what you studying?"
Her: "law"
Me: "oh so you defending Criminals and making loads of money?"
Her: "well no, studying Constitutional law and depends what kind of law you study"
I make a little joke about her top "I must say you are easy to spot" and she does get it. Whether its a good joke or not, she is laughing so I carry on.

She doesn;t seem to mind talking to me, infact it seems she is enjoying it but when my stop was coming up I thought I would try and get some kind of contact details. It would have taken longer to get her number so I thought I woudl try to get her facebook. That way I coudl add her, chat to her and hopefully get her number but when I asked her she made this weird face as if to say "I thought this was just a casual chat and had no intention of giving you my number or anything"

As there were other people there this made me feel really awkward and for a moment there was silence. She was texting her friend and at the time i was really pissed off that she had the audacity to reject me infront of these people. I did feel like going home and licking my wounds but I thought no way, I'm not going to let this one girl ruin my day. She probably paniced and is probably regretting it right now but in any case she is going back to the states in 2 weeks. Did some Sedona Method to release the negative emotions and I am trying to forgive her. I understand it was a bit awkward for her too and I didn;t really build much of a connection or show much intent but I was happy I started a conversation with her.

I did feel like going home, punching a wall, crying but I got to face the truth. Although she may go to her friend and tell her she met some guy on the train who started a conversation with her, after a day or so she will forget and carry on with her life as if I had never happened. She may meet some other guy today or later on with more confidence who she might decide to go out with and if I had not forced myself to carry on I would have been an emotional mess, NO WAY! I took the other route and fought back because sometimes the inner child demands for things to be put right, the way they should be so allowing one girl to affect my mood is not happening!

Did a bit more daygame and had some great interactions although some were short but went direct a bit more than usual. When you get knocked down you got to get up again!

Me "Its such a pain having to carry a suitcase on a train"
Her: "yes I know and this one isn;t even mine, I'm carry it for my friend"
Me: "oh I see, is it one of those situations where someone has asked you to carry the suitcase for some odd reason?"
Her: she laughs "no its not like that"
Me: Are you working for Alqaida? is there a bomb in the suitace (raised voice for others to hear)
Me: If you lay on the floor and start shouting Jihad i`ll lay the smack down on your ass

Fuck it mate...I bet that most of those other people around you on the train wouldn't have had the balls to just start talking to a complete stranger!

At least you chatted to more girls after that...survivor instinct

Haha love this! Sometimes you win, sometimes you don't - By the sounds of things she seems a little defensive against creating rapport

I think she might want to give you her phone number or Facebook but the fact that there were so many people were in the close vicinity makes her uncomfortable and also once you were gone she has to stay there in the train and face all those people.

I think she saw it as a bit of casual conversation that was leading no where...

Thanks, probably right so I think more intent next time!

Get over your self so what if she rejected your arse why be so outcome dependent???.

At the end of the day you had a nice freindly interaction and she was just being her self.But in reflection she could of given you a fake name for fb then you would of walked away looking the( MAN)the world is not a hollywood movie keep your chin up anyhow.

I think you have already shown the intent by taking initiative and talking to her, what else can be done to show intent?

The fact is - if you cold approach somone, wether you have the gall to ask her out in front of everyone or not, this does not entitle you to get her number so you cant be annoyed just because she rejects you.

How would you feel if the situation is reversed - for example somone you were not attracted to in the slightest, chats you up and asks you out in front of a load of strangers.
Id personally feel a bit pissed off.

there again, id terminate the interaction right from the start if i wasnt interested by giving one word answers and making it obvious i wasnt interested.

this is why i always wait for IOIs from people