I started the night at Tonik. There wasn’t much game there.

On my way to Espionage I number closed an HB8 who was waiting for her kebab. From our convo she told me that she is single.

With the aim of setting up a meeting that night, I text her like 10 minutes with the usual.. It was nice meeting you. She replies immediately.. And I follow up with; I am in xyz, the music is good.. U having a gud time? She hasn’t replied.. I am deleting her number by tomorrow if she does not respond.

So, I am about to enter Espionage when I notice 2 Milf HBs 6 & 7. I make small fluff talk. And it’s raining and I offer one of them my jacket. She declines, but I had scored brownie points with her cause she commented on that to her friend along with some other IOIs.

I let them go when we get into the club. I notice them changing locations when we are in. I feel they are ‘scouting’. So, I lean back and don’t chase or approach.

Now, I have found a pattern that works for me in clubs:

I don’t open sets that much anymore. My wing suggested that since I dress classy and expensive.. , I should not approach women and let the game come to me instead..

This seems to be working.. I have had women come up to me and ask me: Why are you not dancing; a couple of times, and I get some HBs asking their friends to ask me to come over, etc.. This rarely happened when I was opening sets.

I don’t think it works like this for everyone, but it works for me.. It’s like an ‘angle’ i.e Peacocking and acting somewhat uninterested in picking up women in the club.

For one, I think, it’s partly because women are good at reading body language and they want what they can’t have readily.


Onwards, I am at Espionage, enjoying the music and sipping my drink. My wing was not out.

I usually make the move for women between 2 – 3 am. I have noticed that their guard is usually down by this time; for whatever reason..

So, I am chilling at the bar when HB 9 and HB 7 walk past me. Me being who I am I go for the hotter one. I make fluff talk with the both of them though. Then, I turn to HB9 and say she should go grab her drink and we will go to the dance floor.. She replies in the affirmative.

As they are ordering drinks, my back is turned to them and I later notice another dude talking to HB9.. I looked for a way of AMOGing him but I couldn’t think one up.. That is one area that needs some improvement I know… I try to make some fluff talk with her, but to be honest, I sensed she was into this guy.. I noticed that he was better looking than myself. Not, that I am bothered.. Just a note.. 

On a 1- 10 scale I have been rated 5 -6 by friends and women. So, I am average looking. I know that when it comes to ONS, women ‘usually’ want to go home with the hottest guy ( and maybe combined with the best game!). I see that plot playing up now.

I also notice the guy paying for drinks for her.. Bloody AFC!!.. Lol!!

So, I turn to HB 7 (her sister) and we make more fluff talk.. I act ‘unamused’ when she seems very interested that I work for an oil company.. Looking back, I think that helped too in her becoming more attracted to me. I made it seem very trivial in a good way..

So, I tell her to take her drink and join me on the dance floor. She obliges. Her sister and the other dude follow suit.

I then take control (subtly) by asking her to put her drink on a ledge and that I want to show her something. To cut a long story short, I kiss closed her after some dancing, bumping, grinding and serious bum grabbing that she didn’t object to.

I am interested in her more now cos she doesn’t have a flat bum like I supposed. She had a gorgeous bum… All this while I look around and I see all the guys, standing by the wall staring at us.. Big deal!! I say to myself; if you know the right thing to do and say, you will be doing this too.. No biggie..

While we are dancing, I notice HB 7 looking at her sis. She gets her sis to dance with her a couple of times. Each time I subtly take her back by stretching out my hand; which she takes and continues dancing and kinoing; without rejecting..


At about 2:40, I say to her you are going back with me to mine to for more drinks and she says may be.. She says this with some very positive body language.

I tell her where I stay and she tells me where she stays. I feel this is going to be a good nite..

Then, some minutes later she grabs her bag and says she will be back.. I tell her to hurry up that I am about to leave. She thinks I am not going to wait for her and she proceeds to kiss my hand. I tell I will wait for her and she kisses me on the lips . And I take that as an IOI.

So, she leaves the dance floor with her sister. Her sister arrives 5 minutes later without her.


(I am going to be honest here cause. I want honest and thorough feedback about this.)

Her sis pretends like she does not know where HB7 is. The other dude even chips in with: Where did she go? I turn to him and say: You don’t need to do this cos of p***y!! You are a man!

HB9 hears me and cannot utter a word.


Looking back, I am not 100% sure what happened, but I think HB 7 had LSE and left or simply didn’t like me as much. That is the only reason I can come up with because she gave me some IOIs that night, but the rest is history now anyway!!

Feedback welcome, guys!

N.B: I have seen my game improve over time and I see it as a process. So I am taking last night’s event as one of those experiences.. My game only gets better…

Stop offering your coat to random women, she's done nothing to earn it and she refused, because she doesn't want a 'nice' guy no girl does and her friend smiled for the same reason.

Try teasing her something funny/cocky about her hair being wet, that would have got a reaction.

There is nothing wrong with dressing classy but you could wear a designer suit have an 50k watch and the women would still not come to you, this is AFC talk, get over this stupid idea. If you don't want to open sets, introduce to yourself to lots of people in the club, that will get you more attention than sitting around waiting for it to happen.

hey if it sitting around waiting for it happen is working than fine, I dress slick, my body langauge rocks and I still had to work, I say this for the benefit of others reading who think you can waltz into a club and expect things to happen with good posture and no effort, because in my experience only AFC's excpect this shit. They then go home for a drunken wank.

Making your move between 2 - 3 is pathetic AFC stuff, what you get a this time is wounded gazelle's, girls that are too drunk seperated from their friends or low self esteem. You're good when you've gamed a HB10 at 9pm and she's not had a drink, you kiss close her and she's agreed to leave the club with you.

Women don't rate on looks mate, its bollocks, I have degree in psychology, trust me its true, sure if you're good looking it helps, but on the whole they are looking for qualities you display not on how much you look like jonny depp or whoever. While i'm on the subject 6 months sarging compared to 6 months in a gym will net you more women, its not rocket science.

This idea of not paying for drinks is sound but is getting over used, i've bought drinks for girls I've fucked same night. Its not totally AFC to buy drinks, just understand by buying a drink you are buying yourself about 5 minutes of her time, you have to use that, some of use don't need to buy her attention.

Stop saying 'are you', you claim to take control this is not the language of someone taking control, 'you are' coming with me is much better. Don't mention 'my place' I know its mentioned in several PUA books as a no no and in my experience its sound advice. I've seen girls faces alter in an instant as soon as you mention those words, 'my place'. It's alarm bells stuff for the girl. There are other ways to extract her much more subtle.

When I started I used to say' we're leaving, do you have anything in cloakroom, regardless of answer or protest I would then say who do you need to tell, I wouldn't wait for an answer just say tell them you're leaving. Nine times out of ten I've met the group they think I'm okay, if I've not met the group this where I'll get blown out.

Just to dispel a myth here, getting a girl to fuck you on the same night is rare. The PUA industry peddles the idea that with game you can do this all the time its bollocks believe me, your main purpose in a club should be to game as many girls as time requires and get phones numbers because no matter how good you are if you get 5 phone numbers some will blow out.

To end on a positive note, good effort you are out there doing it and applying what you've learned, you can only get better. good luck

this is crap, honestly if you spend your whole life making women jump through hoops... uf gonna fall on ur face.

if a womans cold, your 6 foot & have a jumper give her ur fuckin coat FFS.

as soon as she says thank you, she has earned it!

i gave my hooded top to a girl in magauf to keep her warm, i had no tshirt underneath, whilst it was raining ur seen as protective if your taking the cold to keep her warm.


plus i really dont like seeing women cold, im always warm... i can take it.. im not a pussy.

this whole PUA thing has some people turnin the world of men & women into a WAR, but its not a war knave... its just a game... a silly game

Its a fun game and the better you play the more fun you have.

Guys that 'don't get it' see women as the enemy, they're not, we're all on the same side.

"I usually make the move for women between 2 – 3 am. I have noticed that their guard is usually down by this time; for whatever reason.."

Lol, I think that 'reason's' name is alcohol, genius! ;0)