Ok, so for a couple of weeks things got shit. This is a post relationship field report.

So for the past year, since I got back from Miami, I've been seeing a girl in Scotland. I was working as a writer so could work from anywhere, so would often travel around the country seeing my mates or her and just stay where ever and work on the fly.

Back in June, I was offered a job in Edinburgh so moved up to be with her.

Then earlier this month she finished with me. I was devastated. She told me should couldn't be in a relationship. That night we spent together and I thought we would be okay. The next night she stayed at some guys house she claimed was a friend, and I told her to get her stuff and move it out.

I packed it up, she collected it. Cried to me, told me she loved me and I flew home feeling shit. I had to call in sick for work for a week - I was so devastated. I wasn't really sure it was over, but I thought she space between us while I was home might make things better.

So I come back to Scotland and she says she doesn't want to do it but wants to be friends. I tell her no, dont contact me again.

Two weeks on, she told me she was seeing someone. I am aswell - Nice chinese woman. works in a restaurant, brings me tofu. I told my ex and she freaked out. The next day she told me she lied about the other guy. I told her not to speak to me anymore.

Shes gone mad, calling my house at 6am, missed calls on my phone. Crying to me, telling me she can't bare it and I'm a liar and never loved her because I moved on so quickly (knob!) - and all the while shes changing her story about this other guy.

So yeh I slipped up - For a couple of weeks I let this shit affect me, but I'm back on form now. Obviously dont regret the relationship, it was really good, but my past experiences through PUA have let me move on quickly and gave me the strength to cut off my poisonous ex.

I'm still in Edinburgh, if anyones around. Off to Miami in a month. Already have halloween plans with a gorgeous ex stripper.

Hope everyone is well.

Sounds like a few months where you learn the bread and butter, glad you came out on top form though! Shows you how much women lie just to mess with your head as much as some men lie to get into their pants!

Depends on how you feel about her friendship but if it was me I'd tell her to stop calling - you did the right thing that isn't necessarily moving on but putting the crap behind you! Trick or treat...

Emotions mess with your head. She might actually be feeling a lot of the things she has said but it doesn't mean the relationship can work. Being friends is just pointless...even more so in this scenario.

i think she met someone, bad boy... she got swept up in it... got fucked around... and realised what she had with u was real. women love fantasy !!! the whole IDEA of maybe


girls only ever springboard out of relationships... they are weak, pathetic & have no loyalty as far as im concerned. that can change with age

better of without, she sounds like a kid

Yeh think so Phil - I don't need people like that in my life anyway.

I've told her to stop calling and been ignoring her calls.

Think a few years ago I may have been like, still trying to sort stuff out, holding on for a bit of hope and would have come out of this with a resentment towards women.

This time it's like, I'm a really good man - after all this stuff she doesn't deserve to have me in her life.

Good attitude mate. This PUA stuff not only make you better with girls it actually change you as a person.