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Originally Posted by Refl3x
you should have just ribbed her mercilessly about being a tramp wearing a hoodie and scruffs and then showed no interest in her at all.
that would have thrown her 'all guys want to shag me' equlibrium
if you didnt fancy her you should ahve just ended the date about 30 mins
'right your boring me now lets make tracks'
try and gauge if she fancies you, even by being really direct
now i`ll ask things like, do i look like my pics etc
if you get the idea shes not into you just terminate the date
Ive been in exactly the same position as you when i first joined this forum
you`ll walk away from a date questioning if there is somthing wrong with you or what you are doing etc
best advice is FORGET IT
for all you know and this happens more often than not
she will have other dates lined up
she will already be shagging some other guy
she will have personal issues
she will have shit going down in her life
you and her on a date is NOT the only factor in the universe as to why she isnt interested in you
stop turning things inward on yourself and just think 'whatever'
You are AWESOME!
NOTHING is more powerful in an interaction than NOT GIVING A SHIT
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If anyone is doubting how accurate this info was, I went on a date with another girl (not from POF), she turns up in smart jeans, sexy top and killer wedges.
We hire a boat, we chat
We click
Advice for you guys that have a bad date
What Reflex says above
and
It's not you at fault, it's them