The Natural Vs. The PUA

I just had my office party last week and my game has improved over the last few months. I had a really good time, talking to almost everyone, dancing with the cute girls in the office.

One girl in particular that I have been interested in for a while ended up kissing another guy from the office who already has a girlfriend, and he is a natural. Very annoyed!

I had to leave early to catch my last train so If I stayed longer I could have been in that position. I didn't want to escalate with that girl
in front of my bosses and the directors.

So I guess that this guy has clearly embarresed himself in the office but I didn't end up with the girl which is frustrating because I know I could have.

The learning lessons:

Next time just stay till the end of the party and be persistent, isolate the target and be discreet to save face. I left too early!

I've still kept my reputation in the office so I dont feel too bad but the naturals will always be one step ahead of me.

Anyone had any experience of going out with a girl from the office...a good or bad idea?

There is no such thing as 'a natural'.

Oh for Christ's sake. Not this bloody argument again.

We're all naturals surely?
I was naturally crap. Now I'm naturally less crap.

Here's a thought: That feller who got with the girl probably didn't go home and write on a forum about it.

Unless it was Phil.

But look man, some people just care a lot less. That's about the long and short of it, as far as I can see. Some people just don't give a fuck, don't worry about needless shit, and they get much further in life.

NO NO NO!! dont iscolate the target!! dont stay till the end coz of a girl

U GOT IT ALL WRONG SONNNNN ur problem is ur doin this shit with a girl as ur focus.

u should be ur focus, and she will become urs! and ASK U TO STAY!!! otherwise... go home coz u dont need to be waitin round for the bitch!!

honestly u put to much investemnt in girls!!

Lol...........

I'm sorry Phil, but reading your post, the last time my head nodded so enthusiastically was when I was in my mate Matt's car, and he crashed, and I got whiplash and was given £1,500 compensation.

I guess, what I'm saying is, stop being so right or I'm taking you to court.

Final warning