my good friend picked me up we had a few beers at his house then went to a club. We met a couple of friends there aswell we sat and chatted for a while and my friend and i got chatting to a girl who had a bf but she was flirting away. we had a few beers and chatted for a while. I went to get a drink and opened a two set at the bar simply by saying hey hows it going? they were a blonde and brunette hb8s. They were foreign i dont use routines so i fluffed for a while got lots of iois. I handed her my phone and got her number. then i said so what are girls from your country like at kissing? she got all shy about this and started blushing lol. i left it for a minute then said i would like to kiss you and k closed. i was using kino like touching her arm and back when i was talking to her. She wanted to dance so i danced with her for ages she was an amazing dancer and i made out with her alot on the dancefloor. we were really into each other and i thought i had a good chance of f closing her. near the end i asked her what she was doing after and she said i dno. when the music stopped we got our coats and i walked out with her holding hands and said lets go and walked back with the 2 girls to their house. i was swaggering walking out of the club i noticed other girls looking at the two of us dancing. my friend was standing outside and i just walked passed saying cya l8r and he laughed lol

so anyway we got back to the house and sat in the kitchen the other girl was sticking around. the girl made me tea and we were sitting listening to music. i kept up the kino putting my arm around her and stroking her leg. when the other girl left the room i just thought fuck it and said to the girl lets go to your bedroom. i thought i was gona get laid but i could tell she didnt want to on the 1st night. she said her room was messy and all and i said dont worry about that im sure mines worse. i started stroking her hair and made out with her a couple of times. they wer talking about star signs and thing like that and asking me questions about relationships and 1 about religion. i thought the girl mabye seen me as bf material beacuse her friend said her last bf was my age 20 and she was 26 and didnt want me to fuck her and not see me again.

the other girl said 2 me do u know any taxi numbers and i ws like r u goin to leave us in peace lol joking about. i went to the toilet and came back and she was hinting that she wanted me 2 go. when the girl left i was like whats wrong and she said she had 2 work at 5 in the morning so i couldnt stay and she said i can sleep in her bed next time.

so the taxi came and the 1st girl went outside and i kissed the girl and said r u sure you dont want me to stay last chance saloon lol. so got a taxi home.
i was disappointed i didnt get laid after walking them home and all but i had a really good time and i think i still have a gd chance of f closing her and i told her i respected her and understood where she was coming from. the other girl met a guy that night but she didnt bring him home so i could tell they didnt really go in for 1 night stands.


update on this situation guys i met her again and went to a bar held her hand walking down kino in the bar and had a good time with her. then we went back to her place and got a carryout. we were making out and every time i tried to go down on her and or finger her she stopped me. anyway she wanked me off a couple of times but didnt get to f close her. she said she wasnt a slut and that she wasnt ready yet.

she was away for 2 weeks there and i have been busy so havnt seen her for 3 weeks any ideas of how to go about this one guys?

Dude,

Sounds like you really don't need much advice. Keep doing what you are doing and moving things forward.

She may have been on her period. I know enough girls who don't like it when they are and don't want to come out and say it either. So they just resist that day, which can be confusing.

The one piece of advice I will throw down is: If you think she is concerned that you wont stick around, chat about what you are going to do together in a couple of months time. Like at halloween or bonfire night. Is there a kick-ass fireworks display in your area? Talk about going to that together. Or about some future gig you might go to together.

Of course, I'd only advise this if you actually see that in your future. Leave her better than you found her and all that.


Peace,

kowalski

thanks for the advice man you were right i sent her a text last week saying that i wanted to make love 2 her lol. i just thought fuck it go 4 it she didnt ask me round that night but

The next day she texts me saying what are you doing tonight? and i went round there and f closed her no lmr this time. i think now i am improving well because i am starting to go for it instead of pussying about lol.