Ok so ive seen this czech chick a couple of times - awesome fuck, dirty as

The drive on the way over to hers i realise the night will be interesteing, as going from a 40 to a 60 i overtake a 4x4 without noticing a police camera van is parked up in front of it, so as the 4x4 pulls out to go round the van i swerve further out into the other lane so we all end up 3 abreast.
hopefully the van didnt get me on camera as i was shadowing the 4x4 in its view.

so i get invited to her Flat for dinner , she has a czech flatmate and they are both cooking me czech food for dinner, they also invite a guy from their work who lives across the road from them.

They all work in finance, guys an accountant.

Night goes really well, foods ace, I decide on glass no3 of wine that i am staying at theirs as i cannot drive back now
Guys pretty sound we have a good laugh

to be fair - i fancy the arse off my girls flatmate

I am slighly bemused as flatmate and guy go out for a cigarette and my girl sucks and wanks me off in the kitchen

later as we all get more and more drunk (not me really as i dont get drunk i always stay in control)
my girl is rubbing my cock under the table-- only its a glass see through table.. which makes me chuckle as im sure everyone can see.


Anyway guy gets steadily more and more drunk and starts demonstrating
annoying traits -- such as, ive done this and ive done that, trying to argue with me about stupid shit - basically he feels insecure around me and is trying to demonstrate he is higher in value than i am
I just sit back and let it happen as i dont give a shit

so then he gets onto martial arts and he goes

Guy : Look i can see your a big strong lad with those muscles but i bet you dont have the speed to go with it

Me : Oh i think you would be surprised theres nothing wrong with my speed

Guy : Cmon then get up (he assumes a stance)

Im thinking, oh ffs i can see were this is going and it will annoy me
so i stay sat down
after about 5 minutes of him insisting that i get up and prove ive got speed
I get up

Fire off 2 backfists at him which he cannot block and pull them before i hit him in the head
Then he raises his guard in the way of my fist - so i trap his guard and backfist him again

Thinking my point is proved i sit down,

So then he walks round the table, and starts talking more shit having not learned his lesson
so he throws some punches at me which i block, and he then proceeds to lecture me on martial arts and punching
He throws more punches at me and backs me up towards the wall, i block them all then just totally LOSE THE PLOT
Grab him throw him across the kitchen into the wall
(im actually surprised and shocked how much stronger i am when i see red - which considering im about 3 times stronger than a guy that doesnt train, normally - is VERY strong when im pissed off)

so he kindof bounces off the wall and staggers back towards me so i grab him again and throw him from the kitchen into the lounge, unfortunatly flatmate girl is in the lounge and they both hit the floor as he lands on her

flatmate girl starts throwing a fit and shouting as she gets off the floor- im still in the red zone and wade over to him and grab him and half drag him up off the floor and shouting
'get the fuck out of my face, dont ever touch me again'

Im just glad he didnt try and fight back otherwise i was having visions of mercilessly stamping on his head and going down for GBH

I start to calm down and go sit down at the table - he staggers off in shock
flatmates shouting at me to get out the flat
he comes back pretty much in tears appologising to me, which is appologise back and we shake hands but i tell him - im sorry but you pushed me into that

so he then knowing flatmate girl is shouting for me to get out the flat invites me and my girl to sleep at his flat and he`ll sleep on the sofa

Im in his bed with my girl - she is horny as FUCK asking me to fuck her all night long
As i found out before in a previous field report i did were me and a girl were trying to have sex in my car and were followed by some freak in the middle of knowhere who wanted to watch us - who i confronted and threatened to fuck him up and rip his arms off

Asserting yourself as the dominant force gets girls fucking horny
I could see it in my girls eyes she was ultra turned on by my power

unfortuntaly i came once and then said to her, nope thats it im stressed out
(although i went for seconds 3 hours later)

So basically my lessons learned are:
I need to learn to assert myself in a non violent manner - i could ahve just said to him - look you are pissing me off now stop this or im going to slap you
then progressed it onto a shout
unfortunately i just tend to stay on the surface calm while underneath im hitting breaking point and just snap
I am worried and wary of my temper and try and avoid all confrontational situations, not just because i feel like im capable of anything when i lose it, but because ive got the strength and skill to really hurt somone badly
Ive done pretty well so far - ive not actually had a fight with somone for around 10 years

Next lesson
I am not for one moment saying, walk around like billy big balls, 10 men or have fights, bully or act violently to anyone -- its not worth it, the reprocussions, just the way it makes me feel and the fact i obsess over it for days afterwards makes me feel aweful
BUT - you can see why some hot chicks end up with some scrotes who get into fights and reackon they are tyson, there is just somthing in girls that subconsciously switches on when they are around things like that.

Wow, totally felt you on this one.

Pretty much exactly how I would have dealt with the situation. I would have really struggled not to knock this dude out tho, so I admire you for being able to control yourself.

I myself struggle somewhat with my temper. Not in a passive aggressive way whereby I stump my toe then punch a window. I am a very chill guy day to day. But when dude's get in my face and start challenging me, I have a tendency to snap. I have been training martial arts for a few years now, and I think it is both a blessing and a curse. You do learn to control somewhat, because at the back of your head you know "how to fight" unlike your average chump. But at the same time, you learn to "enjoy" fighting. It's sick, but I actually quite like getting hit and inflicting damage on people. It's totally fucked up I know, but's so primal, testing yourself against another dude.

At least I'm aware of it. And like yourself, I am actively trying to keep control of this when on confrontational situations.

Like you said Jaz

If i drop somthing, spill somthing etc i dont get angry, i just laugh about it
i think ive got a pretty good coping mechanism because i am aware of my temper
99% of things i`ll let wash over my head- but when i cant cope with somthing i just flip

You know what my subconscious started saying to me while it was happening
'Woooooah you are fucking awesomely strong'
'look how fucking easy this peon flies through the air'
even though my expression didnt show it - i felt a big smirk cross my face, part of me enjoyed it, even if he fought back i was 100% certain i could have killed him within 2 minutes
knowing you have that level of power is intoxicating

I actually feel a bit remorseful however today as hes a nice guy and he was pissed and the whole things made me look like a potential psychopath

Totally.

There have been a few occasions were I have blown up and at that moment I was like "Yeh, I win, this guy just got owned". But in hindsight, It was a blatant mismatch to begin with and I just end up looking like the dick. Composure in certain situations is all you need.

Don't get me wrong, if some dude is FOR REAL wanting to lay down some fists, swinging punches then fairplay. Own it. But in certain situations, like the one you were refering to. You would of made him look like a total dick for trying to tool you if you just remained calm.

Personally, I am a BIG fan of the bitch slap and a quiet talking too if someone trys some shit like that. It isnt overly aggressive, it dosent hurt too much. It just puts them in their place, instantly.

A few months back I was in the pub when some pissed up idot was being a tool to everyone. Abusing people, grabbing girls, you get the idea. Everyone pretty much ignored him (the bouncers should have chucked him, but they were fucking useless) Anyway, he comes over to me and my mates and starts the loudmouth routine. I go to the bar, grab another drink and come back over. He turns to me and says "and who the fucking hell are YOU then". I just laugh and ignore it. He goads me again and then my mates go silent. I just look at him he CRACKS HIS NECK (!?) and walks right into my grill. I make my mind up in about 5 seconds, I give him a beautiful slap right across the chops. He stands there startled, like a deer in headlights. I say calmly "put your hands on me, and I'll rip your fucking head off, now piss off". He just lays his pint down, shakes my hand and slowly, staggers out the pub.

That was it. Perfect. To be fair, he could have come back with a shotgun, but I think it was the right think to do

I have studied tae kwon do when i hit the bags made a thudding sound totally different to anyone in the class which i thought my god if I hit someone jesus I could kill them!

Because ive been doing weight training my strength compared to Mr Average is like you reflex way above his level so in the class they where astounded by how hard i can hit I surprised my self.


I remember when at school this italian kid was atempting to bully me I had brand new shoes he approached me and said IM gonna christain those shoes by rubbing his dirty feet into my left shoe then the other this got me mad so i hit him with two sharp fast hooks he was balling like a little bitch .


Then he ran at me I threw a loose jab he runs right into hit so you can imagine the impact not joking he went like hearns did when hagler nailed him his legs went like a new born colt he collaspes crying he was knocked out for about fithteen seconds it was a short ALI would of been proud of its one of the most memorable moments in my life .


As he was laying in the dirt i said you picked on the wrong mother fucker today Mr. walked away he did not get up for half a hour I was shitting my self imagining life in Borstal!!!!.

None of this story is bullshit.I seen him in the pub he bought me a drink no hard feelings he said we even played pool I think he was in awe of the shot i threw at him so respect for him to forgive and for me to forgive for soiling my price shoes.


I was hit by a back kick in a tae class by a big dude dont know why his girlfreind was there we were semi sparring he kicked me in the stomach the PAIN UNBELIEVBLE my insides were screaming I did not know pain like that could feel that bad I rolled onto the floor got up straightaway pride and the humilation I guess when i got up he was a red belt me a green .

I was thinking shall I try and punch him knock him out but when you really get hit by a leg shot it surpasses any head shot by a mile and I admit Im not as brave as I would like to be .


I kept cool in a later lesson i nailed him back so revenge is sweet.


Ive had fights but I try to grab then not hit as I dont like the thought of ten years in prison!!!!.

Reflex you beat up a accounted thats funny shame it was not a BANKER.


We should share are voilent stories its whats makes us masculine and you cant beat the feeling of a good fight.

Nope not trolling believe me every word is true not sure what you mean

never mind why would I lie cant be arsed trust me it happened .

I believe you, just that last statement threw me a little.

to be honest, im ashamed of myself for losing it like that
its somthing i need to work on
hes a good bloke and i should have handled it better, the only loser in this field report is me,
I feel ashamed i acted like that with him, totally flying off the handle
ashamed a girl who had been nothing but friendly and fun got knocked over
I just generally made a total cock of myself

Funny how men dont want to loose face when to fit birds are watching you both!


I would not worry he asked for it dont fuck with someone who is stronger is my opinion.