Hi, I'm 32 and I suffer from anxiety so it is really hard to approach. I am in therapy now and things are improving. However, approaching girls is really hard. I've been taking my first steps on my own - asking questions of people in shops in a really positive way and just being in night clubs on my own.

I would like to meet someone at the same stage as myself so we can just talk about what's going on in our heads. We don't need to put any pressure on each other but be sincere about how we are feeling and give each other company whilst taking on these challenges.

I go out in the day and night in central London. I am friendly and positive about this and accept it can be hell at times. I'm not negative so I won't drag you down at all, just need a little company with this. Let me know if you want to meet up.

come out with me let see if we can work together and take it from there.

Im out every week day at the moment, in central london. im 33.

call me fri or any day next week. im just taking a day off 2moro to spend wiv a girl i like a lot, which i met doing a cold approach on ox st. This shit works!!! im also a nube mate im only 4months in to gaming.

peace

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shit i just read that bit about being at the 'same stage'.... call me if youre still up for it.

Hey dude

Im on quite a few forums and one Im on is mainly Lonon based. Anyway I used to suffer from really painful shyness. I saw a Hypnotherapist for a few years which helped then pushed myself through my fears step by step. You're doing well to be proactive at getting better at this. I remember years ago I would get nervous talking to girls, I couldn;t even use public transport, couldn;t even go to Restaurants on my own and now I think nothing of this.

You will master this! Stay positive and atleast once a day or once a week do something you find really scary that you would not normally do. Keep making small talk with strangers and just start conversations with girls without any hidden agenda.

Hi NewJackSwagger,

I'm 32 and live just outside of London (30 minutes to waterloo).

I also have anxiety problems which have stopped me ever having a real girlfriend. I beleive if I could approach women I would feel much better about myself.

I recently went to Australia by myself which was great but It was a wake up call that I need to get over my issues. Maybe we could chat sometime.

Mark