Hello first of all.

Next I would like to say I'm scared. This path of the PUA has been looming over my life for the past few years. And I don't yet know what this says about me.

Let me explain...

I have just come out of a three year relationship. It just wasn't working and the love we had died. Bad times. The only reason I didn't end it sooner was because I was 'settling' and was on some level scared that I wouldn't find anybody else.

I discovered this game just before I entered my last relationship and quickly realised that it was a path that I was very interested in following. But I got into a relationship so all that went on hold.

Now I am ready.

The reason I said that I don't know what this says about me is that I hope I am not chasing false gods. Don't get me wrong; I am under no illusions that this pickup world is going to answer all my dreams. Life is a funny old fucking place. But my last relationship was great. We loved each other. We were swingers and we slept with other people. We went around the world together. We had what many people would think of as the relationship made in heaven. But it wasn't enough for me.

But anyway, this is a path which I must explore.

Ok enough now, I have bored you enough.

Me: 25, High Wycombe.

Is there anyone from High Wycombe interested in sarging? If not London?

Take care guys,
Benji. xx

Never let fear hold you back Benji, that can be the most destructive of all feelings, and can prevent you really achieving your full potential.
The pua world can seem intimidating, but take it on board as playtime and have fun. Theres nothing mystical about it, its just about realising your true potential, so my advice is take everything on board, but make up your own mind about things too.
Welcome on board!

Fear is good, makes you alert. Use it to accomplish more.

Hey Dude

'Fear is the only darkness'

High Wycombe isn;t that far from Reading. I live halfway between Oxford and Reading so if you feel like it, come and join my little band of brothers lol!

The confidence will come. Its like building muscle, you may go through pain but you know its doing some good in the long run.

I have no clue where High Wycombe is haha. If its near the Brighton area then your welcome to come out and about. Haha. Anyways...The only person that can change your life is yourself mate. The material here and in all the books and dvd's etc that are out i see as confidence builders...They help you become the true you. You got it inside you...You just need to release it now!

We got a group of 5 or so guys in Oxford now who go out all the time.

Thanks guys for all your advice. It means alot. Thank you.