Hey Guys the names Master-Mind and ive been studying game now for a while now, however no success in the Lay department.

I just find it all confussing like when to transition, do this, that, and it all sounds to complex.

Although ive had a few miniture successes like approaching woman, im still really nervouse.
I think its more other people im worried about, i can approach a woman no problem but if theres people around i get all terrified and shit like proper social anxiety.
I just dont no how to not give a fuck, ive tried everything.
I just cannot approach at all i get terrified probibly more than anyone i no.
Plus i got alot of complexies around social conditioning area that i think have effected me like its wrong to approach and game college chicks for sex even though my desires tell me its ok...

Beating this social conditioning and approach anxiety is the hardest thing ive ever done, and i was wondering if anyone could help. Cheers fellas

Master-Mind.

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Welcome to the forum!

To get some background, how much time have you spent out in the field? (I.e. 6 months x going out twice a week on average)

The reason I ask this is because my (limited) expereince so far has taught me that the whole not giving a fuck thing improves naturally (but slowly) the more you go out and the more comfortable you get in clubs etc.

There are tactics which I'm sure some of the more expereinced members will be able to share with you but going out regularily is defo a big factor.

Where abouts are you based? If you want some partners interested in improving with you're likely to find them here, of course I understand if you're uncomfortable meeting people off the internet.

I've got two things to say to your anxiety:
1. A conversation can only support 4 people, so at most you only have to manage that number at any given time, including yourself. You may have speculators, but they're not too dangerous until they join the set.

2. 100% agree with Mann, you gotta get out there and go it til it doesn't hurt anymore. Success breeds confidence, and confidence is what you need when you're feeling anxious.

Hope that helps, and looking forward to hearing more from you.

Hey guys thanks for the advice,
Well ive known about game for ages and read up alot of material however i aint been out twice a week, only as an when friends are going out etc (Not specifically to meet girls becouse when i do i end up doing something else becouse i chiken out)

Im based in the grimsby area North east lincolnshire.
Its frustrating becouse every place has babes but i want to see some older woman of beuty, for example the only beutifull woman up hear are in college and thats not a problem Ha! thats awsome! but its like a student town, i cant wherever i go find the mature woman of dominance and independance that i would love to meet and if i see them there driving past in there flash cars and i aint flagging one of the road to start a conversation Ha!, "I aint Ross jeferies HA!".

Well Chers guys im still working on my confidence and hope to hear from you soon xxx

Hey man, Galaxy is from grimsby (although he's in Leeds for Uni at the moment)

New to the game but a plucky lad. Look him up. you might get a good wing during holidays (students only study 30 out of 52 weeks)