My name is Ed.
I'm 31.
Live in Essex, UK.
Driver's Assistant.
No experience as a PUA. I have seen bits of the VH1 show featuring Mystery and have started reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss.

So...basically. I simply have no game, pattern or form when it comes to approaching girls I like. I can talk to girls easily...when I don't find them attractive. Those that I do, tend to drift by or if I do get involved, many a time I'm the great listening ear and shoulder to cry on. I don't know how to create attraction and so could easily be described as an AFC at the moment.

I spent my 20's wanting to settle down and meet the one. But just ended up withdrawing and passing up possibilities because I knew I didnt want anything serious with the girls I had the chances of getting physical with. This led to a drought that would make the Sahara seem moist.

In the last 30 months I got involved in a very messy situation with a girl I thought was Gorgeous. But she was emotionally screwed up and was ultimately quite an abusive mess.

Since that finished I don't really want to settle down anytime soon. I want to meet lots of different girls and have lots of different experiences.

I suppose I just want to learn to let myself go abit more and make the most of who I am. Because I just feel like I've sold myself short in the majority of the areas of my life.

All advice, guidance and chat would be welcomed and appreciated.

Cheers
ed